I'm 22 and my professor has been hitting on me. I'm really into him and think we would be a great couple, but I'm scared. He's told me I'm his favorite student and that I have a nice ***.. I know it's inappropriate for a teacher to say these things but no one has ever talked to me that way.. Please help.
2006-10-18 14:51:41 · 17 answers · asked by Rebecca L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-18 14:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't think you should. He may be someone you can hit it off with but you need to respect yourself first. Just imagine if all of a sudden people are going around saying you do the teacher for a good grade. And what if it doesn't work out between you two afterwards. It would be very awkward. I just don't see any good reason why you should. Be strong. Find someone else who is not a teacher and makes you feel the same way as your teache does. There is a lot of guys out there and that will maybe even dress up as a teacher for you if that's what you are into lol just playin!!!
2006-10-18 14:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to, go for it, but have no illusion that your going to be a good couple. For him it's probably just a fantasy to get a student. If he's tried it with you, he's done it before, and probably has a rep. for it. You may get an A in the class, then again I would document everything, just in case. There is a reason why professors get fired over this, they are abusing their mentor status when they do it. Just remember, it's a big risk for you and more so for him.
2006-10-18 15:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I'M SURE YOUR VERY CUTE AND NICE BUT WHY ARE YOU GOING TO SCHOOL FOR?? TO LEARN OR TO HOOK UP?? YOU CAN TELL THE TEACHER THAT AFTER THE COURSE IS OVER, AND YOU STILL FEEL GOOD DATING HIM, THAN START DATING. DON'T GO OUR AND HAVE SEX RIGHT AWAY. YOU BOTH CAN WAIT.
BUT IF YOU DO IT RIGHT NOW DURING COURSES, YOU CAN BE CALL TEACHER'S PET OR WORSE AND TRUE GIVEN HE WILL GIVE YOU A GREAT GRADE, BUT ALSO IF IT'S NOT REALLY LOVE JUST LUST, WELL HE CAN JUST FLUNK YOU FOR NOT DOING IT OR IT WENT SOUTH. YOU WOULD NOT JUST GET HURT AND EMBARESSED EVEN WORSE YOU WOULD HAVE TO FIND ANOTHER SCHOOL CAUSE THAT TEACHER WILL GIVE THE 411 TO THE REST OF THEM.
SO IT IS BETTER TO FINISH THE COURSE WITH HIM AND THEN IF YOU STILL WANT TO DATE THE TEACHER, FEEL FREE TO DO SO. BUT WAIT TILL YOUR DONE.
I AM NOT OBJECTING TO AGE OR NOTHING. IT'S JUST THAT YOUR THE STUDENT WORKING TOWARDS A CARRER AND HE IS THE TEACHER TEACHING IT.
I WISH YOU WELL.
2006-10-18 14:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by ALEX ROCKS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to control your reproductive juices until the end of the semester, then sign up for some other professor's classes. If you are still in heat when you graduate, then call the old boy.
2006-10-18 14:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in the teacher for who he is and not for the attention then you should pursue it. But not until you are no longer a student. The problems that the relationship would cause for the teacher, would not be worth it.
2006-10-18 14:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is the guy? More than six years, watch out. Prof's are into power and control and they pick the young ones because of the idol worship some profs get. At any rate, not until he is no longer your prof.
2006-10-18 14:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do decide to have sex with this Professor...you should quit taking his class. Because if things do not work out , it will be very hard to face him every day. He should understand this and agree with it.
2006-10-18 14:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not a boy. And if your not, then go for it! My mom went for her teacher, and they've been married now for 28 yrs.
2006-10-18 14:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i say no!!!!!!!!!! that is way wrong!!!!! i think you should tell someone!!!! also if you did and he got mad at you he could start a bad rumor. and he could dock your grades i've had it happen to me. and it was really bad after words.
2006-10-18 14:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun honest to god, ur just a booty call to him why wrisk that heart break? good luck
2006-10-18 15:22:31 · answer #11 · answered by wpm203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋