My gf hasn't had a period for 3 months she says she isn't pregnant yet I worry. I have a few questions please.

Question

Ok, so my gf stoped taking birthcontrol. She was off and on with the birthcontrol, well it has been about 3 months since she last took birthcontrol and she hasn't had a period yet. She also says she knows she isn't pregnant because girls would know. We haven't done anything sex wise really. I haven't put my self inside of her over the past three months, because I felt like it was wrong, religous reasons. If I do put my self inside of her, I use a condom. Anywho, I haven't put my self inside her and I was told a girl can't get pregnant unless a guy is inside her and goes inside her. Is this true? Once in a while, we will get eachother to go (come), but it wont be inside, it will be out side and not trying to be in that area. I was also wondering, if a guy was to come on her on the outside of her area, can she still get pregnant? I was told no. Please help me so I don't worry. I know a lot of you will probebly say take a test. But can some of you help me with the questions please? Thanks

Answer 1

obviously she cant get pregnant if you *** on her stomach...this is common sense...but if you *** around her vaginal cavity there is a possibility that it could get inside of her. I would just advise not to go in that general area when your at your peek, just to be safe. "Life finds a way"...if God wants you to have a baby, your gonna get one. If you dont put yourself at any risk what soever your safe. But abstinence is truly the only sure way.

If for some reason you have an accident, condom breaks, whatever...take her to "planned parenthood" and get "the day after pill"

its a pill that she can take the day after conception occurs just to make sure that no pregnancy comes about ;)

you seam pretty good at makin decisions, just be careful

Answer 2

First of all, a girl doesn't always know that she is pregnant. I have spoken with many new moms lately that didn't know they will pregnant until well into the pregnancy.

As for not putting yourself inside her when you have an orgasm is not always foolproof in preventing pregnancy. There is such a thing as pre-ejaculate that can also cause pregnancy. And those sperm can be great swimmers. There is also the issue of fidelity (although I wouldn't want to cause you any upset).

On the other side of the coin. If she has been going on and off her birth control - this can also effect her cycles.

The best answer is unfortunately a test. There are many over-the-counter choices that are pretty accurate.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Lots of questions in one post. There could be a few reasons she is not having her period. Her body may be adjusting to the fact that she is no longer relying on hormones from the birth control to keep her cycle regular. However, most of the time the menstrual cycle will regulate itself after about a month of not being on the pill. 3 months of not having a period while going off of the pill is pretty unusual. Pills work differently than something such as the Depo Provera shots or Norplant implants. A girl can get pregnant if a guy ejaculates near her vaginal area even if he doesn't penetrate her or if ejaculate is on your hand and you touch her she can still become pregnant. Sperm can find their way to their target area. She needs to go to the doctor for a physical to see if she has any underlying problems. If you're having sex of any sort both of you need to play it safe.

Answer 4

Ok, take it from someone who has had two kids and is married. If you haven't had actual intercourse, without a condom, chances are she's not pregnant. Sperm has to stay warm and cannot live outside the human body for longer than like 10 minutes. So even if you ejacualte outside of her she still will not get pregnant. Actual intercourse causes pregnancies. And I will tell you this, I got pregnant with my second child while on birth control. When I was in high school condoms broke some of the time. No method is a 100 percent.

Answer 5

Well birth control pills cause, a lot changes in a women periods, but you should take her to have a pregnancy test to be sure, I mean condoms are not 100% secure, and neither taking it outside, there always the probability, that some went down there. I dont get what kind of religion, will let you have sex with your girlfriend without getting married if you have "safe sex". Bad roadway you take it quickly. Give her the test be sure.

Answer 6

If your girlfriend's confident that she's not pregnant, ask her to take a pregnancy test for you. Let her know how you feel and that you are worried. I would have done it for my boyfriend. And, yes.....you can get her pregnant without ejaculating inside of her. In fact, ejaculating around the vagina is taking a risk. My mother's best friend got pregnant with twins that way. I would say to stop having unprotected sex if you aren't ready to be a father, but just go out and buy a pregnancy test for peace of mind.

Answer 7

Your girlfriends periods will come soon, the pills sometimes make periods irregular.
No, u cannot get her pregnant unless u have sex inside her only.
If u love your girlfriend , just go with the flow and let things go naturally, use protection , unless u want to be a father right away.

Answer 8

Alot depends on her age the younger she is the less regular she will be. Also with her going on and off the pill she has got her body clock messed up. I can only recomend keep contact with her being a guy who lost contact with a girl and always wondered if she had a baby can make ya wonder. I guarentee that in less then 7 monthes you will know for sure

Answer 9

u should ask her why isnt she worried about not having a period for 3mths, if u get sperm outside her vagina, u are taking high chances of getting pregnant, get the test, honestly u need to sit down with her and ask her if she knows something u dont, cause when girls miss their period they automatically think their pregnant, and shes giving u excuses like a girl would know. im serious ask her to do a test with u, so you can see for yourself what the results are.and if shes not pregnant, & u dont want any children right now, u better tell her to remember to take her birth control.

Answer 10

the lubricant that comes from your penis is called precumm and it can make a girl pregnant also you can get a girl pregnant if you use condoms and the pill at the same time as i know I am 35 weeks pregnant right now. she can miss her period after she stops taking the pill that is normal usually a couple of months but she should really get a physical if she doesn't get one soon. she maybe pregnant. good luck to you.