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I am happy that I am pregnant, but I am so concerned about the little things that I am just in funk. I am over weight now but am so worried about being very very fat afterthe pregnancy. Booth of my other children I gained at least 60 pounds with the pregnancy and I am so frightened that wil happen again. My body image has really become a problem. My b/f tries to help and reinforce how attractive I am to him, and that he will love me regardless, but I can't get over my image. I have never been smaller than a size 12 since we have been together, but I am up to a 20 now and am only about 16 and a half weeks. I don't want to stay in this rut, but I just don't know where to go now. I am also going to the doctor every 2 weeks.

2006-10-18 14:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by yungin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Maybe you could see a nutritionist if you haven't already to put you on a plan that maybe you wont gain so much wait through this pregnancy. I think there are so many hormones running through the body it is hard not to be depressed sometimes when a person is pregnant. I know I experience it and I am only 19 weeks. Good Luck!

2006-10-18 14:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sakora 5 · 0 0

Listen, girl! You are pregnant. I am too and nearly the same size. I know it sucks and it seems like everytime you are ready to get to lookin' good here comes a baby. But relax, you are pregnant and you are supposed to be rounded and beautiful.
Just fix yourself up, paint your nails, put on some Kylie Minogue and dance your little booty off.
At night, lay off the eats and stock up on a crap load of sugar free jello and light whip cream. If you want to go off, do it. Just back off the next day. The awesome thing about being pregnant is your metabolism is reved up almost 40%. So don't get depressed over being preggers again and just give up in that pint of Ben and Jerry's. It's gonna be okay. You are a beautiful, life-bearing diva and don't forget it! Whenever you go to the Dr. don't stop for that fast food or chocolate, go spend that 10 bucks on getting your toe nails painted or go to a really funny movie that will lift your spirits.
It's gonna be okay, girl...I promise.

2006-10-18 21:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by katesfive 2 · 0 0

being prgnant affects your hormones it is natural that you feel they way you do. just remember of course you are putting on weight you are pregnant and it does happen. Try to go for walks and be active it is good for you and is good for the baby and eat normal as you are not feeding for 2 but for 1 with maybe just a couple of extra calories. Good luck with the birth it hurts like hell

2006-10-18 21:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0 0

well first things first. congratulations on the pregnancy.
All that u can do is remember to eat right. the more u think about your weight the worse u will feel. and the worse that u feel, the more food u will eat. try and do something to distract yourself. take up a hobby.
dont get down on yourself and remember u know have this little bub to be thinking about

2006-10-18 21:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by missylissy84 2 · 0 0

eat healthy and exercise!

2006-10-18 21:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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