Just give me some hints to drop or what i can tell him.
2006-10-18 14:00:51 · 28 answers · asked by AnnA 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
You could explain to him that you just don't want or need to be controlled and that you can control your own self. If your bf doesn't want to do anything for you and makes you do stuff for him, then he doesn't deserve you. A guy shouldn't control his gf on what she does or doesn't do. I've had experiences like this before and I've stood up for myself and told the guy what's what. If ur bf doesn't understand that you don't want to be controlled, just say, fine, we're done and go find some other girl that likes to be controlled.
2006-10-18 14:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by AMPLette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, no hints are going to work on this one. If he's controlling you won't get rid of him easily.
For breakups I always say do them in a public place so that he won't be likely to do anything rude or abusive. Ask him if you can meet him somewhere for drinks and go in and as you are casually drinking let him know that you are not wanting to be in a relationship with him any longer. It could get tense but its the best way. Make sure you leave last and that you are safe. If he is controlling he may try to come to your home afterward to confront you so it may be helpful to plan to spend time with someone else for the night.
Hope all goes well!
2006-10-18 14:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by r_k_winters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ... im sorry... from now on i am going to do whatever you say. I am always wrong and you are right. You should also say please tell me what else i should do. Females are put on this earth to serve men! If you dont like it then tough, break up with him and live out your life single. Until you are over the hill and too old for anyone to want you. Then its gonna be too late for you to find anyone. Guys can be 80, with lots of money and still be able to attract young girls in their 20's. But there is no way an 80 year old woman can attract a young 20 year old guy with any amount of money.
2006-10-18 14:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Random Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont just drop hints, I give what you should do exactly. Look into his eys real deep and tell him nicely and softly "Hun, our relationship has just been...*sigh* a little overwelming lately....*a little sad face* I love you and all but, youve been... Controlling., 'N I jsut dont think we can go any further unless we both treat eachother fairly. I'm sorry, you can keep me if your good but you just might as well say BYE BYE when ya bad." *dissapointed look, walk away slowly* If you love him that much turn around quickly rush over to him and give him one last kiss. Turn around and walk on
2006-10-18 14:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A controller will only tighten the reigns once you start the breaking process. May even turn violent. Get him to kick you to the curb! Not by going out on him, that will be worse yet. Get gross! Get annoying! Get clingy, needy, call all hours checking up on him. Be an embarrassment to him in front of his friends. He will get sick of you. Controllers do not let go, unless THEY get rid of you. Better to be rid of alive, than rid of and no one ever finding you....extreme I know, but controllers MUST control, so let them....(If you live together, then just be careful so abuse doesn't result from the above suggestions, if so run for your life and get out quick without notice)
2006-10-18 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by cantyoujustseeit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl u need 2 tell him right 2 his face "look u r 2 controling and u need 2 get your own life an stop controlling mine and u can trow some cussing words in there if you r old enought
2006-10-18 14:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him now than later on you cant even control what you say. Tell him its over and don't answer his phone calls stay away from him as possible especially if you love him its going to get even more worst! So do it now when you can!! always a hand to others, KAOS!!!
2006-10-18 14:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST of all, Im trying to figure out WHAT this question has to do with music.. are you wanting to tell him in a song? Try playing "Here's a Quarter, Call Someone Who Cares".. for him..
2006-10-18 14:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by hickchick010365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Restraining order
2006-10-18 14:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by c-money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋