i'm so stressed!! i think i really like this girl but i've never talked to her, so how should i know?? sometimes when i look at her i feel like it's right. idk why but the feeling is just so strong, i've never felt it with anyone else i've liked. but the bigger problem is, i have a boyfriend!!! and he's a cool guy and lots of fun to hang out with, but i don't think i like him like i thought i did...i'm just so confused on what to do...can somebody help me??
2006-10-18 13:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by anna 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The fact that you're considering the possibility that you like this girl more than you do your boyfriend says it all. You'd rather be with the girl than the boy this time. If I were you, I'd break things off with my boyfriend, as amicably as possible. This would be the fair thing to do. Then, I'd determine for myself if I have a good chance with my crush. I'd make small conversations, etc. If I do have a chance with her, then I'd go for it. G'luck!
2006-10-18 13:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can be tricky to not cause many problems it would be best to know that she likes you like that too before you made a move. If you dont think you have as strong of feelings for your boyfriend that you should, break up with him your feelings are telling you something.
2006-10-18 13:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cat D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just talking .. that is the start and then see how things go from there. nothing will happen if you do not start chatting, so find an appropriate topic and start. with your b/f, i guess you have to decide yourself whether you like him. if you find the girl is what you feel best with, then your b/f will understand (we hope) and lets hope he stays as a friend. does he know you are bi? if not, then maybe let him know and he may assist with the girl you mention. but first you must just start chatting with her and probably him too .. good luck .. charise .. i am a lesbian, so maybe my words of your b/f are not practical .. you will have to decide
2006-10-20 01:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by charise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a friend that is bi and she is really worried about it because everyone found out at school, but she she copes with it better then i thought she would. So i think that maby you should tell your boyfriend how you feel about this girl, its better then liking someone behind his back.
2006-10-18 13:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Birds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ICE BREAKERS:
Did you go to my camp?
I like your shirt! Where did you get it?
FOR THE BF:
Tell him gently that you just want to be friends. and if he dosent know, tell him that your bi, and you like someone else and you feel the flame has gone out and you dont feel the same way as he does about you, and stress the friends thing if u like to hang with him.
2006-10-18 14:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by ilovewicked19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, once you're acquaintances on facebook already, then i don't think of she'd discover it weird and wonderful in case you messaged her desirous to get to nicely known slightly approximately her. i don't probable think of you're able to choose an excuse. you are able to in simple terms say which you opt to get to nicely known all your buddies on facebook, extraordinarily for the reason which you bypass to the comparable college as her and all... stable luck.
2016-11-23 18:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have feelings for him then why stay. you should let her know how you feel. It might be ment to be. I suggest you asking her to get together some time and you can get to know one another. I did and don't regreat it at all. good luck.
2006-10-18 14:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choices... choices... you might want to spend a few hours alone on a park bench quietly sorting out your thoughts...
2006-10-18 14:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by guicoder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllllllll maybeeeee she isint into Girlssssss? Find that out before you embarasesee yourselfff!!!!!!
2006-10-18 13:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to thje girl and become friends. be open and honist with your boyfriend
2006-10-18 13:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋