My husband and I are looking for way sto "spice up" our sex life. We have been talking about trying anal sex, but I'm still not sure about that, I don't know enough about it I guess.....can someone give me some advice on anal sex, or how else I could spice things up???
2006-10-18 13:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by iloveyellowelephants 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's all on your preference, if it seems interesting then by all means try it. After that if you don't like it don't do it. For the first time though you will have to go slow, it takes some time for the muscle to relax. Remember communication is key, if you don't like it say so.Lube will help as there is no lubrication there. In the end sex should be enjoyed by both, my best advice is to keep an open mind (this goes the same for him). Anal sex isn't any different than oral sex, vaginal sex, dirty movies, a sleazy hotel, or the backseat of a car. It's just a different position and style. It may work, it may not. But you won't know if you close your mind without even trying it.
2006-10-18 16:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as another woman, I will safely assume that the anal sex was your husband's idea as it is all men's fantasy...tell him to get over it. there are many things to do to spice up your sex life without anal intrusion. how about going away for a hot weekend at a hotel, bring some toys, and dirty movies.
2006-10-18 20:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you'll get thousands of suggestions on this one. I'm male and not really into the anal thing, neither is my wife. What really spices things up for me is when she writes me stories about her fantasies, bring other men and women into the picture in a story and it's hot.
2006-10-18 20:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by im4shannon2day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhhh.....anal sex is good....slow and lube.......
2006-10-18 20:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by zepfan12 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋