I DID WRONG??? They where kicking boys in the balls!!!?

Question

I am 12 yo. In my school many girls used to kick boys in the balls for fun and the boys never ever hit back! I can not understand why the boys did nothing, if they hit back that sh*it would stop fast. The girls that used to do it know that it hurts like hell, they know that can stop them from having babies, and they know that the boys feel abused, but they do it anyway and not only they thik is funny but I suspect they also get some kind of sexual satisfaction! And most of the girls that don’t do it think its funny and laugh at the poor boys when it happens, and that makes me mad!
Last week a boy got kneed in the cafeteria and threw up, he just walked away!!!
I could not take it anymore so I told what she did and what was going on in the school to the Principal and then to my parents. She got expelled; and all the girls where told in private that they should use that only on emergencies and that they will get punished if they do it differently.

Now girls that I don’t even know are calling me a “rat” and even “traitor”(lol!).
I am not very popular among the girls now, but I noticed that I am becoming popular among boys :-)(that was not the reason I did it). My best friends support me, and I would do it again. I did wrong? If so, WHY? WHY? WHY?

“jerry f”, What are you talking about? YOU PERVERT!!!

"taught"? SADLY, I think not, I think its that way by nature.

eric s, your friend lost a testicle because a girl kicked him for fun!! I am so sorry, that story made me cry. :-((

Answer 1

You didn't do the wrong thing. When people are mistreating someone (or a bunch of someones) somebody has to do something about it. You did something about it.

I've been disgusted at how often this subject comes up on this site because it seems to me as if young girls today have become meaner than they used to be. (There have also been news reports about how girls have physical fights and join gangs more too.)

Its disgusting that so many girls think this is funny.

As a little time passes and those girls who hate you for what you did talk to a few other people and figure out what you did was the right thing many of them will understand that you did the right thing. A few may not, but what do you care about people who are incapable of understanding right and wrong.

If I found out some girl hurt my son I'd go after her with whatever the law provides to go after someone for assault (and maybe sexual harrassment?) I think, too, if I found out my daughter was doing that I'd probably get her to a psychiatrist because it is not normal to hurt other people and think its funny.

So, you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe if more of these girls knew someone would report them they'd knock it off. Maybe, too, if some boys started to see that people will get expelled for that they'd be more ready to tell rather than just assume nothing will be done about it.

Answer 2

Always tell if someone is hurt. When you turn things around what if that boy was you. Yes, it hurts and it is not so funny. It is worse but comparable to getting kicked in the bust by a boy. Not so pleasant.
The reason the boys do nothing is that in our society boys are taught to never hit a girl. And they are embarrased to tell when they were hurt in such a private area. Boys are told to suck it up and take it. Be tough, be a man. So they take more that us girls would ever take from another girl.
Anytime you see a problem beginning try to stop it or at least report it. We don't need bullies even if they are girls. Bullies can cause many nasty things to happen at a school. You hear of shootings and bad situations where large numbers of students get hurt like Columbine. This is how it starts.

Your a nice person for caring. Don't hand around with those girls you are better than them.

Answer 3

I'm a guy and I know that it IS NOT FUN to be kicked there!! Hurts like hell! I would say that the girls in your school are going a little overboard. It's alright to do in emergencys, but not just for fun! I think that you did the right thing. At least your best friend still likes you (and the boys to, thats not bad!). The girls will get over it soon, and accept you again!

Answer 4

I am very proud of you. It takes a leader to be willing to stand up for what they believe is right, even in the face of dissaproval. In highschool, i stood up when the teachers son was sexually harrassing my friend, sadly, it didn't go over well with the teachers and principle, and nobody stood up with me, not even the person i was dating at the time. So, i left the school and never went back. I got my GED with honors, i found out later that two weeks after i walked out, people began coming forward saying they'd also witnessed it. But, undergoing such an extreme rejection from people i knew and loved because they were cowards was a defining moment in my life, because i realized standing up for what i believed strengthened my soul and could eventually change the world even, which i have been doing these years i've been in college. I might only be 22, but one is never too young to begin standing up and giving others a voice when they don't feel they are allowed to speak up for themselves.

When others turn their back on you, take the knowledge that you've followed to the truest of your knowledge, what is right, take that and hold it as a badge of honor and count it a blessing people's true characters were revealed to you.

Yes, those boy's should have stood up for themselves; I don't often condone violence, but i do condone speaking out boldly and repeatedly, even in the face of adversity.

The world changes when someone says "i will change the world, by monitoring what i give or deny my permission to" including whether or not people are treated equally, and protected equally.

To see how i've decided to devote myself to changing the world, please visit the link below:

Answer 5

I knew a boy who had to have a testicle removed because of those kind of girls. I would never hit a woman for any reason except if she kicked me in the balls and will probably teach my sons when I have them the same thing.

Answer 6

I have herd of this, the girls around here do not do this (boys around where we live have fathers who are farmers, ranchers, mill workers are the biggest jobs here. The boys learn physical labor at a young age in general here).
If my 14 year old was taught to hit and he hit a girl that girl as another boy would be hurting very seriously.
My boys are VERY big for there age. Men in general are usually bigger, stronger then women. If a women has a traditional role as mother caretaker muscles are not something this kind of women needs (as for a man who has a job on computer, or pencil pushing and is not one to lift weights or do daily excesses).

We personally have raised our boys not to EVER hit girls as a rule. We have stressed not to hit ANYONE in general.
This might be because our boys have always been big for there ages?

As for you young lady, you are very smart. You had a goal to get boys attention. Instead of kicking them in privates you chose to use your brain. If kids today thought more like you, we would not have so much violence in the world!!
Keep using that brain of yours! If the girls in school are mad or jealous then maybe they to will start using there brain instead of violence!

Answer 7

Do the right thing because it is the right thing to do and it will keep you from doing wrong. Sometimes it is hard, but if you do not stand for something, you will go for anything. It seems some of the girls at your school are going for anything; do not be that person. You did the right thing.

Answer 8

Good for you! Those girls were being bullies. I'll tell you why they are mad at you though. It's because they got caught doing something they know is wrong and it's easier to place the blame on someone else than to admit they were wrong.
You should be proud of yourself for doing the right thing. It's very rare these days. Keep it up! You give us older folks hope for the future! :)

Answer 9

If this is real I have to tell you you did the right thing. Girls your age should not be hitting the boy . I agree a female should never do that except to protect herself. Good for you!!

Answer 10

I'm proud of you for what you did. I wish there were more girls like you to lead the way.

Btw, don't listen to Gerry F. He's probably not really a guy, but a bitter woman posing as a guy so she can encourage the humiliation of guys. hah ;))