What's the best way to apporach a guy and do i approach him or does he apporach me? And if i don't apporach him how do i get his attention? And what do i do to empress him just to make him notice me?
2006-10-18 13:02:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
walk up, say "hi". most guys like to be approached, boost for the old ego, didnt happen to me much when i was single, but always felt good when it did.
talk to people he knows, find out what he likes (dont mean stalk the fella tho) and that should help break the ice, ask if he wants to go for a drink, not many blokes will turn down an offer like that.
good luck, hope it all works out!
2006-10-18 13:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... don't run into him that may give him the wrong impression, first impressions mean a lot to guys. I don't think about what it could have been or what it might be if someone makes a bad first impression. Just say hi and introduce yourself, but don't talk to him when hes with other people. if hes with one or two people get a friend to go with you when you say hi. he may have already notice you, but not approached you! i notice people that i don't approach, because i wait for them to approach me; sometimes it works and others i regret it. find out hat you have in common and talk about it. if he likes something that you like ask him if he likes it. IF HE ASKS FOR YOUR NUMBER DON'T EXPECT A CALL RIGHT AWAY! i don't call people right away, but if i do its that night or the next morning(9-10). i normally wait 2-3 days.
2006-10-18 13:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going about this all wrong. Don't even try to impress him or anything. Just be confident and when ever you pass each other, say, "Hi" and smile. That will open the door for communication. People under estimate the power of a simple "Hi." If a girl smiles and says, it can honestly make his day.
2006-10-18 13:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by oaparicio2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to get a guy is to act like you don't notice him and when he's around do things that'll impress him
2006-10-18 13:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he hasn't approached you, he probably won't. If you want something, you must get it. Don't try to do anything to impress him (definately don't try to impress him with your spelling skills). He will be impressed by your being straightforward when you tell him that you like him. And that will get you noticed!
2006-10-18 13:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by matt4x420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think if you say 'hi' and smile, often youll be in. Probably better he appraoches you, means he has some balls. Ive had girls steal my hat, bump into me on accident sometimes, that works. Wearing something like fairy wings or something gives him an excuse to come up to you and comment on it.
2006-10-18 13:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by lucas m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the guy..............if he is a somewhat a shy person then just start a conversation with himand you will end up being his friend...............if he isn't shy and shows off alot then just walk away and hangout with the other guy he'll be nicer to you other than the show-off.
2006-10-18 13:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by alitay96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are shy too. if u are in the same community try and join the group he's in but don't try too hard...men can perceive ur desperation 10 miles away...what worked for me when i was younger is just ignoring them..im not giving any guys any attention...and they seem to come to me anyway....just be yourself, be confident...your personality can attract them....or him....
2006-10-18 13:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im not very good at the flirting oh attention thing but i have peeps who help me or try. Ok let him come to you. Flirt talk to him wink at him smile yah know.
2006-10-18 13:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess just be yourself and hope for the best! good luckx
2006-10-18 13:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋