There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. He gives me compliments about things and when this other girl on my swim team asked him to go with her to homecoming as friends he said yes. When she was telling me about it. He came up and jokingly asked me if I was jealous. I think it's over a 6 month period that he did all this. At homecoming he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I came with a date. He asked me about the guys I danced with and why I danced with those guys. I like him although I don't show it at all and I know he's nice to everyone. At homecoming I had to ask him to dance and then he left his date to slow dance with me. Should I tell him I like him. If yes, how?
2006-10-18 12:57:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know if he likes me back.
2006-10-18 13:01:12 · update #1
If he asks you how you feel for him, that's when you tell him that you like him. But if he doesn't ask, don't tell him yet. Just wait.
2006-10-18 12:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it the worst it can do is make you both feel a little awkward for a while you should just say hey i was wondering if you happend to like me because it sorta seems as if you do and if he says yes tell him ( or if you can tell he likes you by the look on his face)
2006-10-18 20:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told a guy i liked him and he was 9 years older than me all you have 2 do is tell him you need to tell him something and pull him away where no one can here you and say this is kind of embarrassing but i cant keep it in any more and just say you like him it worked for me and now the guy i like is really nice to me and we do not hate each other any more
2006-10-18 20:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by fashion freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him, Just say how you feel, Talk to him like a friend like it's not about you but about him than light will support you, and give you strength.
2006-10-18 20:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCE YOU ARE A FRESHMAN AND HE IS A JUNIOR, THOSE TWO YEARS ARE A BIG STEP.. YOU CAN TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM, BUT KEEP HIM AT ARMS LENGTH. REMEMBER HE IS ON YOUR SWIM TEAM AND YOU HAVE TO SEE HIM OFTEN. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE.
2006-10-18 20:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him just say I really like you. Maybe ask him to grab a piece of pizza after your swim class
2006-10-18 20:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cheer 4 Fun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said that he is nice to everyone and that you didn't show that you liked him, maybe you should just act more like you like him. and you should try asking around to see if he likes anyone.
2006-10-18 20:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexybabybloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he likes you and he acts it by the way u described he acts. You should hang out with him sometime just YOU AND HIM. Then get into convo about realtionships and then you are set up to see how he feels about you :)
2006-10-18 20:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by swmergal9313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should and you should just over come yourself and ask him how he feels about you? if he flips it and asks you, don't hesistate, just tell him, you like him and wanted to know what's up....the only thing you are afraid of is no...it's not that big of a word.
2006-10-18 20:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by thatsunderstandable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and boldness are the only ways to find out!
2006-10-18 20:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋