2006-10-18 12:55:04 · 24 answers · asked by Teenie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Teenie it takes a split second to fall in love but its a life times work to stay in love and to keep your love strong
Love is always evolving in the begging its a hot lust and full of passion after time it still smolders but a deep and loving friendship begins to underlie the lust and after many years love is a partnership were both partners are as one person and that is still love just different that's all
2006-10-18 13:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't take years to fall in love with your mate although that love can grow more and more over time. Some people believe in love at first sight. You can love someone dearly and not be in love with them. Maybe that's the case here? If you're in love, you'll know it!
2006-10-18 19:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have loved my husband from the first time that I saw him. But I love him more and more as time goes on. I feel that after being together for 17 years that I fall in love with him over and over again.
2006-10-18 20:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the feeling of "falling in love" is a bonus of choosing to love someone.
To love someone is a choice. It is a choice to want that person to be happy; a choice to want the best for the person; and a choice to make sacrafices if necissary to ensure the persons happiness.
The feeling of "falling in love" is a result of those choices. I don't think it takes "years" to fall in love but the the feeling of falling in love can grow stronger over the years. However, it can also weaken over the years as well.
2006-10-18 20:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope,, years sounds a bit exptreme..may take you years to realize your in love with a friend, but to fall in love you know fairly early in the relationship if you love the person
2006-10-18 19:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it takes less than 79 days or more than 83 days to fall in love, the love is doomed.
2006-10-18 20:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had both type of relationships, the ones that took years to fall in love weren't very passionate. The one's that took days were the best relationship I've had.
2006-10-18 19:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Snow White's Mother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started falling for my man maybe 3-4 months into the relationship but didnt tell him until months later
2006-10-18 19:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are already in love with your mate
but haven't realize it yet... well, because if you are staying with him in years, that means something. So my answer is no. You would not stand to be with somebody you don't really love.
2006-10-18 20:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I think it takes different people different times. We're all different which is why some of us love easier, some of us find it difficult to love, and some of us are consistently falling out of love.
It varies from person to person.
2006-10-18 20:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋