he is barely home anymore. He say's that he loves me, but I really don't know anymore. He always stays at his friends house now. We have been through a lot together. We have a son. I don't know what to do? Should I just dump him or what? I am going crazy.
2006-10-18 12:51:26 · 12 answers · asked by mlm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should just give him the space that he needs; I know it's hard, but as soon as you back off a little, he'll move back towards you. Relationships are always a bit of a push pull struggle: as soon as you show too much emotion, he'll pull away, but as soon as you start to show independence and emotional stability, he'll try as hard as he can to get all that attention back again. Also, you should take this time away to think about what you REALLY want; don't make any crazy decisions right away...
2006-10-18 12:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him yet. Talk things over. Tell him what and how you're feeling because of what he has been doing lately. Do comprises for each other. Then communicate.
2006-10-18 19:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first go to his friends house that he is always at and find out what the big attractions is...Then go from there.Go luck
2006-10-18 19:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's not sure what to do ... you didn't say if you live together ... if you do he may not be ready for this kind of commitment that he's help create .. he may just be wanting to break up and allowing you to get so angry that you do the dirty work
2006-10-18 19:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be patient. Tell him a vision that you have of a future, and if he does not see this vision too than God will lead you to someone who will. And be a great dad to your boy! God Bless.
2006-10-18 19:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds to me like either he is tired of the relationship or he is cheating.In my opinion all the signs are there.If you are feeling unsure, talk to him about it.
2006-10-18 20:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by LAKIA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb-he is cheating
make sure u take him to the cleaners on child support.
2006-10-18 20:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down together and have a talk on what's on your mind.
2006-10-18 19:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go with your gut....only you know what's best for YOU!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-18 19:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is so complicated, life just needs love…don’t you think so.
2006-10-18 19:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋