My man is in the military, stationed many miles from me. And will probably be so for many years. He has 4 years left of service and I have 4 more years left of college.
2006-10-18 12:50:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To be honest, it sounds like you will be apart for a long time. There is a good chance that one of you will get tired of waiting that long.
On the other hand, a friend of mine waited 4 years for her boyfriend to get out of the marines. They married when he got home and just celebrated their 25th aniversary.
2006-10-18 12:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most people will tell you it won't work out. I will tell you this:
17 years ago, I was a junior in high school and my boyfriend was a senior and going off to college 1500 miles away. We said we would write(it was before email) and see each other on holidays. We did. I went to visit when I could afford to, and he came home every summer for two months. He even flew in special to go to my prom. People said I wa crazy to stick it out, but Ican tell you this. We have been married now for four years after dating since high school.
Try it out. If it is meant to be, it will happen. I will take A LOT of work though, but it could be worth it!! Good luck!!
2006-10-18 19:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by GiddyGiddyGoin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds are aganist you, but if the love is there it might work out. Also remember your in college, and relationships aren't much different from high school realationships and its long distance...but I hope things work out for you two.
2006-10-18 20:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough. i'm in a long distance relationship, and for about 7 months in total. i believe if you really love eachother than nothing could come between you. but communication is very important and without much of it, things will fall apart. anyways sorry if this dosent help, just want to say good luck- i feel your pain.
2006-10-18 19:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have tried this long distance relationships and can tell you that it does not work. after some time you will start to wounder who he is with, what he is doing, is he cheating? thats only some of the worries you will have. you are in collage and i can garentee he will be thinking the same things.
2006-10-18 19:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by hector m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually doesnt work you in college will get that itch him in the military probably already scratching his itch sorry
2006-10-18 19:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michael K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together for a long time already it might workout
2006-10-18 19:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by alitay96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait in see if he in the military and ur in coolege it can still work just be faithful
2006-10-18 19:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Erika_ka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one... you have all odds against you but if the love is really there and you guys both are comitted, it can work.
2006-10-18 19:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by gabsters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the love one has for another. l.d relations have to be wanted on both ends.
2006-10-18 20:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by pimppbot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋