So, I have met someone whom I'm attracted to. At social meetings I find him gazing my way. We are becoming friends...enjoying each others company. He's used to getting alot of attention because he is very attractive. How does an attractive gay man feel about women....or a close friend that just by being female...gives him the "cooties"...
I've been to his place to watch a G rated film. There were brief moments we were close....brief moment when he sat so that his legs were open facing me, I couldn't help but enjoy watching him while he was watching the movie...and he had his hand just sitting on the crotch of his jeans...while watching this movie (w no hotties males no hottie females) is he just comfortable in my presence? or could it be more? I'm in a relationshiop, and he sort of is too...we are just big fans of indipendant films. I would like some opinions from someone who is gay too.
2006-10-18 12:44:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have you ever seem the TV show "Will and grace"...your grace
2006-10-18 13:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm not gay,but i my i know a person who's my son's friend dad.He works with gay peeps,and i asked him about this and he said:"When a female has a male gay,you shouldn't have any sex or kiss,there is a 99% of STD.And he might even have sex with more guys and girls.Move on with your life.And about the movie,he just uses you for sex.Be very careful of STD.The STD is all most impossible to stop.If your really reach like you have all most all the money in Fort Knox,You can have surgery that will extend your life for about 10-20 years,depending on the amount of cash you give."
He has 2 degree and works for more then 11 years.
2006-10-18 13:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Guner101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother is gay and he has many close straight women friends. Two of them developed crushes on him and tried to initiate sexual relationships. It was very awkward for him and resulted in the end of his relationships with both women. He regrets not having them as friends any longer, but there was no way to continue the friendships because there was way too much tension after their advances. So, I think you can see where I'm going with this.....if you want to keep him as a friend, don't hit on him sexually.
2006-10-21 17:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men admire the heck out of women, in a sense, it's because so many of them long to be in our shoes. But there is a fat chance that his admiration is actually even close to an attraction, and let alone a sexual one.
2006-10-18 12:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by E! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could have a very nice life long friendship with this person. It sounds like he admires you, but if he is guy realize it is just a friendship.
Instead of chancing a let down and possibly losing a friend why don't you stick with guys who will want you?
2006-10-18 12:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend yes, otherwise forget it.
Have had a gay friend and found out a lot of things about that from him.
2006-10-18 12:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like DRAMA as well ? if so have at it
2006-10-18 13:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by treefrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋