About a month ago i broke up with this guy. We used to be best friends but then we dated,he fell in love with me and i didn't love him back, and he went on about how much he would wait for me and was in love with me just a month ago after it.Now, because we all hang about in the same group, we are all best friends. Tonight, my ex brought a new girl along. None of them like her because she cuts herself, is very 'emo' and is 'ugly'(that shouldnt matter i know). I felt really uncomfortable as she hung about with us, but tried to have a good night anyway, and all our friends stayed with me and say they all hate him and stuff. I know he has to move on too, but it kinda upset me, although i can't tell him that. I dont know what to do?
2006-10-18 12:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to get over it because, you were the one that broke him saying that you didn't love him back- sometimes our emotion confuse us- just think back and realize that you didn't love him, let him move on and you need to do the same. Good luck
2006-10-18 12:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact he has no theory WHAT he needs to do. i'm guessing there have been a minimum of a few kinda undesirable thoughts after the breakup (no longer terrible, purely no longer happy.) He might prefer you in his existence by some ability, yet he continues to be harm, so he can no longer come to a determination what to do, and till then he won't say one way or the different. That, and he needs to maintain you guessing. do no longer play that pastime, and pass do some thing else till at last he makes up his thoughts.
2016-10-02 10:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cared about you so much, I can't imagine he's truly ready to be with someone else so soon. Just wait it out - he'll probably move on to another before long. He may even be trying it just to make you jealous. That will only work if you let it.
He's probably with her because she has low self-esteem and he feels confident that she won't break up with him like you did. Try putting yourself in her shoes. I kinda feel sorry for her, actually...
2006-10-18 12:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he must see something in her ... even if she's "different" ... as a friend you should be just that a friend and your friend group needs to try and get a long with her ... you didn't love him, he didn't do anything wrong ... why the attack on them??? be a friend to both ... who knows you may actually like her!!
2006-10-18 12:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then you have a pretty cool friend group. :) maybe they see something you two dont or maybe you two together brought the group some good energy. :)
2006-10-18 12:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on with your life. Let him do the same.
2006-10-18 12:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nick R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are no longer with him, which gives him the right to date whomever he chooses. maybe talk to him and tell him his new gf makes you uncomfortable
2006-10-18 12:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your EX for a reason dont hate the new girl
2006-10-18 12:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true if you didnt love him, then theres no reason to be mad but i would say pretend it doesnt bother you
2006-10-18 12:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by gymbum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋