Yet again, another one of my boyfriends have left me for a white girl. This is the third time it's happened. I know lots of brothas say it's because we're know-it-alls or we're too money-hungry....but I don't think that's it....I'm just independent....I heard some brothas talking the other day and they were saying Asian girls are better than sistas because they have smaller feet....what's wrong with us, sistas?? Why are our brothas leaving us?
2006-10-18 12:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by NUBIA 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Hey, yer black, yer beautiful, foget aboudit!! Find a white guy and check it out or find a white girl and see what the attraction is. What ever you do, don't worry about it, just move on and get yer groove on.
2006-10-18 12:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by twostories 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a rather complex question, but I'll take a crack at it. First and foremost, and as I am more than sure you will agree, us "sistas" come with different attitudes and agendas. Whereas there are some Black women who look for the "bling," there are many others who are just looking for a man (a Black one, in this case) to love. With that said, don't let the stupid stereotypes that you've overheard get to you because it is obvious that they cannot be applied across the entire Black female population.
Secondly, yes, there are those instances where you have Black men that, once again, stereotype particular races and believe that if they align themselves with someone of a particular race, the grass will be greener on the other side.I know this may be hard for you--probably because it seems like it occurs quite often--but this is not something that happens across the board. (In other words, sometimes they leave us because of their stupid beliefs and sometimes they just want to move around.) I obviously do not know if your last three breakups where mere coincidences, but I do know that you should not let it deter you from dating other Black men nor should you see yourself as--for lack of a better term--"damaged goods". Just like many of the other dedicated and loving women in this world (of all colors), we Black women are special and deserve the best.
2006-10-18 12:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am married to a caucasian woman but I would have married a Black woman too if I fell in love with one. This issue is not about race but Love. People can not be held accountable for who they love and I do not believe all black men(brothers) favor white women. People date and marry who they like and unlike many things in life LOVE cannot be legislated. It just is so. Internal reflection and change may bring you your true love or you can get bitter and resentful but the results and outcome may not be to your best interest.
2006-10-18 12:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I agree with you. To find some answers read "Why Black Men Love white women?" by Rajen Persaud. You'll be glad u did...
2006-10-18 12:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by jusprettynsmart 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Again, I didn't know people were still dating Black men. Does the word AIDS mean anything to you? How about coroner? Again, ring a bell?
2006-10-18 16:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Smaller Feet....Heh!
2006-10-18 12:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by LanceMiller77 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
How could you resist a nice pale skin? You can eat off of it, let alone eat it! It's a total visual thing. Trust me!
2006-10-18 12:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Y`all have a tendency to Dawg your man .
We is who we is .
Asian girls are raised to respect and care for men .
2006-10-18 12:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
lol this is a joke right>?
2006-10-18 12:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋