About a month ago i broke up with this guy. We used to be best friends but then we dated,he fell in love with me and i didn't love him back, and he went on about how much he would wait for me and was in love with me just a month ago after it.Now, because we all hang about in the same group, we are all best friends. Tonight, my ex brought a new girl along. None of them like her because she cuts herself, is very 'emo' and is 'ugly'(that shouldnt matter i know). I felt really uncomfortable as she hung about with us, but tried to have a good night anyway, and all our friends stayed with me and say they all hate him and stuff. I know he has to move on too, but it kinda upset me, although i can't tell him that. I dont know what to do?
2006-10-18 12:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
noone should be hating your ex or his new friend or whatever she is to him. It's understandable that you felt uncomfortable with him and someone new, but the best thing to do is introduce yourself to her and don't let either of them know that you feel weird around them. treat this girl the way you would want to be treated. you'll find someone new soon, and you won't have time to care what your ex thinks! good luck to ya
2006-10-18 12:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me he brought her in to make you jealous, the best thing to do is act like you totally like her and befoer you know it she will be G O N E
2006-10-18 12:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by baby61283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that the sing of jealousy so if you didn't like why do you worry he moved on SO you should to.
2006-10-18 12:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by armyboyeman101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋