Ok. A guy with whom I work posted on his facebook profile this:
"They worked at We Work at Marshall Fields and travel the store making fun of POLISH KID and his Sidekick Ricco Suave aka(smelly kid) We are unstopable to there retarted Humer!"
What a stupid bastard!! He makes a fun of me, and who he calls humer? BTW I don't have t-mobile sidekick :) I work with him almost every saturday and we have known each other for 4 months. I am 19, he's 20. I should somehow poke him for that? What do you understand from his text and what would u tell him or what would you do? At work he is friendly but he is also pushover. One of the reasons he makes fun is that sometimes I did foolish acts: like I always unnecessary told my name, though all recognized my voice. And he also doesn't like Polish people because as he told me, he was once pissed off by old crazy polish ladies. But he should have known that not all are like that. Polish are individuals like everybody else. Any solution? why....
2006-10-18 11:50:51 · 16 answers · asked by master343 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why he is that crazy? Does he like me ( I mean possibly also sexually)? What should I do or tell him next time I see him? :)
2006-10-18 11:51:56 · update #1
though he is sometimes mean, he is also beneficial, he gives me sometimes good advice ;)
2006-10-18 12:01:15 · update #2
a typical case of sad low self asteem... Just ignore his stupid behavior, and well tell him off when he crosses your line! You don't have to take it, but by making clear to hem he's a sad excuse for a person, when all he can do is make fun at other people's expence... well that will really make him feel worse then you ever felt!!
2006-10-18 11:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...Either he's gay, or he's just an a55hole. If I were you, I would tell your other friends about it too you know. They can help you, or you can just hire some people to beat his a55 down!!! I think the real reason why he would do stuff like that is because he's probably missing his attention he wants, or maybe there's a girl he likes and she likes you or something. He might be trying to prove that he's an a55 or trying to impress someone that works with you and stuff.
The best solution to these kinds of things is to ask him straight out. Ask him "Are you Gay, because only gay people mess around with another guy." I would say that. If you don't want to do that then you could tell your manager that he's harrasing you because that's what this is.
So
option 1: Ask him if he's gay
option 2: Tell the manager
If you need some kind of help then you can just beat his a55!!!
2006-10-18 11:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by inlast_again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tommy, You say that he is a pushover. He is trying to make himself feel like more macho by making fun of others. Giving your name is not foolish even though most people recognize your voice. It's polite. He is rude, obnoxious and pathetic. I wouldn't say anything to him about this. You have the advantage because now you know who you are dealing with. You only work Saturdays with him. Be friendly with him at work and avoid him outside of work. You can't cure his ignorance.
2006-10-18 12:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a rascist. Don't care about. He thinks you are better than him and that is why he is making fun of you. Just forget about him. You know you are all right so it doesn't matter what he says.
I hope you don't get too upset over this. Every single person in this world has been humiliated by someone. Take it easy and have a good time
2006-10-18 11:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize at your age that what other people say holds a great importance in your life, but actually, the best thing to do is to totally ignore it. It sounds as if he is deliberately trying to provoke you so by ignoring it you get the last laugh.
Remember that if you tangle with him, it undoubtedly will carry over into your job and right or wrong, you could put your job in jeopardy and get fired.
Continue to be pleasant to him and say nothing of what you've read.
2006-10-18 11:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only makes fun of you when you do foolish acts? At work he is friendly. I think he is in love with you even more than you are with him! If there is no physical abuse, and since you did mention "is there anything sexual" then I would slowly persue it.
2006-10-18 12:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if he's still making fun of girls to let them know he likes them, he needs a big dose of maturity. As for his text..quite honestly I dont even understand it. Don't sweat it. Don't respond back, and don't go crazy on him at work. Just treat him like normal.
2006-10-18 11:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what you do it my sound very stupid but PLEASE TRUST ME ok if you have a candy machine near you buy a sack of hot fry's or some kind of snack eat half of them then throw the open baG at him and say you tripped or something so everyone will see and he gets embarrased. Then if he trys to punch you take him down like the polish loving beast you are!!!!!!!!!!
DO IT!!!!!
2006-10-18 11:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by c c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get the **** away or you'll kick ***!! I'm 17 and a girl is after me b/c i'm hott and sexy just that im not like that do you know what i mean! well just say you like hotty girls and not fried grills like you if you get it well i will love to talk to a polish boy i'm 49 percent polish and 31 percent itailian and10 something!! love miranda!
2006-10-18 11:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should mess him up !!! do all kinds of stuff post pics and all kind of fun stuff like that and see what he says to you if he acts like you in this situation say ha when you did this to me i felt that way and either you stop or else and use you imagination on the or else
vote me #1 if this helps !!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 11:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by cheyclarkton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋