I need help seriously. I have trust issues. I dont have anybody to chat with or to go to the mall or any of those things. im married to a guy in the military to make matters worst. He is constantly comming and going and so does everybody in my neighborhood because they are all soldiers. I just dont know how to act around people. im really shy and self consious . I wont even tell my family what goes on with me. Ill call them and stuff but i have never told my mom or my sisters if I ever have a problem or anything. They think I have a perfect life, its not like that but I am not hte one gettting them out of lala land. I am just lonely wish I have someone to vent out every now and then. Do I need a shrink?
2006-10-18 11:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by xadralix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-10-18 11:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by tarafarrah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't need a shrink, but you do need to build up your own self confidence. Try reading Psalm 139 for a week. Seriously! I've watched it transform people again and again.
Surely you have something you like about yourself. Make a list of 10 things that are positive about you.
Try spending a little time each day away from the computer and the TV and in the presence of other people. Go to the grocery store, the park, the mall. Smile and say hello to someone (female) who looks friendly or someone who looks like they could use a friend too. To have a friend one must first be a friend to someone.
2006-10-18 11:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by GrandmaamylovesJesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the air force i don't know what branch Ur husband is in but I'm sure they have something like we do.
our family support center will help u if u go in and talk to them.
tell Ur husband u want to have a BBQ or something with his friends and there wives this is a good way to get to know ppl going through the same thing as u ^_^ u can form a support group and keep in-touch online if u move till u can do something similar in Ur new area
i truely hope that this is of help to ^_^
2006-10-18 11:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by ravenrage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have trust issues too girl and i'm in desperate need of a friend too so ican vent and say the same bullshit everyday too.If you want we can be friends and try to help eachother out,just go to my profile(click on my pic)and then select button to email me and you're all set.If you want i will send you my phone number or you can send me yours and we can actually talk.Typing is not the same to me but it does help a little,so write back to me.
2006-10-18 12:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I am in the same boat sometimes. I am married, and feel as if I say things out loud they are permanent so I really dont talk. When I met my husband I really lost all of the friends I had.
You could email me I would listen without judging.
2006-10-18 11:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well same here i go to school and have tons or people butt no one to sareit with b/c all of them are ---- but well may be we can talk and write to each other and tell what we ae feeling I'll Love someone to talk to when my dad died I haven't told anyone how I feel so all this angry and stuff is in me and taking it out on people i don't want to so I think were in the same boat (but i'm single) I don't know? well I hope we can talk soon. And hope this helps!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 11:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a self esteem issue. Try going to your local library and reading self help books about self esteem. Good luck, you sound like a nice person to get to know.
2006-10-18 11:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by daw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋