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been goin on for 4 1/2 years and ive gotten custody although it be temporary custody do they usually keep it the same or change their decision

2006-10-18 11:08:51 · 19 answers · asked by kim s 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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If you can prove you are who is best for your children then there should be no problem keeping or getting custody. Good Luck to you

2006-10-18 11:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by lpdecca 2 · 0 0

The last time I checked, it was running 15%. A little higher in Texas, where they can have jury trials for custody. Get a bunch of women on the jury and the man has 50/50 chance of custody.

The main thing is being informed about the laws, keeping a trail of evidence, and working closely wit your attorney, not expecting him to do everything.

Go to the link below. You will fun a manual in the files section that will be of use to you. No charge. I created it for a fathers' group, before it was taken over by a bunch of attorneys who thought they could make money off of it. If they had screwed around with it, but now it would have been a multi-million dollars organization, even bigger than N.O.W., but without the need for corporate donations.

2006-10-18 21:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I live in Ky and dads in this state gets custody every other weekend. Or should I say gets visitation rights every other weekend. If you treat your kids great I dont see any judge giving a child to the father for full custody. The judge knows that the fathers mother will end raising the child!

2006-10-18 11:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra M 2 · 0 0

The only way he can get FULL custody is if he has a GOOD lawyer , he earns more than you & have better living conditions than you have, if you were in jail,if you are nmentally capale to take care of your child or if you are an abusive mother !!! The list can go longer but if non of this bad things is your situation you can have the FULL custody unless the judge decides not to but is rarely the mother you should have more rigths if she is a good mother !!! GOOD LUCK

2006-10-18 12:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Fathers RARELY get custody, especially if the children are younger.

Don't know what the statistics are today, but several years ago (during my experience) only 7% of fathers got custody.

Nowadays, they hide the reality by saying "joint custody" which in all reality (decision-making, residence, etc) the mother has custody.

Women say it's "in the best interest of the children" for them to have primary custody. However, the FBI statistic is that mothers are SEVEN TIMES more likely to murder the children after the divorce than fathers are. Is it truly "in the best interest of the children" to place them in harm's way??

2006-10-18 11:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

it's rare that children are given to the fahter the mother would have to be a drug user,mental problems,no where for the children to live,it has to be something really terrible for the court to take away a child from the mother if she doesn't want to give up her rights and even with that sometimes the judge will grant custody until the mother can get her act together

2006-10-18 11:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well if you got temp. custody then you have made more progress than 90% of all the men out there. Keep your attorney he/she seems very good. Be careful with the child advocate they may assign to your case, this could change everything. GOOD LUCK!

2006-10-18 11:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by carpet man 2 · 0 0

There would have to be a dramatic change on your end toward the kids by mistreating them for the custody to be taken from you for him. So, take good care of your kids.

2006-10-18 11:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0 0

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2016-10-19 23:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by daw 4 · 0 0

usually if you get temporary custody it is a sign of things to come and you should get permanent custody

i am a single dad, i got sole legal and physical custody of my daughter

2006-10-18 11:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 1 1

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