he is 40 and i am 35... we "do it " at least 4 times a week. My question is this....every once in a while he is not able to come. He says it either because he is tired, or his tummy doesn't feel good.
Do you think it has anything to do with his age? or could it be that he was looking at porn earlier in the day and took care of himself??
2006-10-18 10:57:28 · 32 answers · asked by justpeachy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
40 is still young so it not his age....
2006-10-18 10:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thank God that I've never been with a man who couldn't achieve. Your husband look at porn? If he does it earlier in the day, he should still be able to achieve when he is with you later. Does he drink any type of alcohol prior to the two of you making love? If he drinks, that can have an affect on whether or not he can come. If all else fails, have him checked out, I would.
2006-10-18 11:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once in a while?????once in a while??? YOu have sex like bunny rabbits and occaisionally he can't make it to the train station? You have a man who happens to be part of the human race...not a machine. Men have to battle the demons in the work place....bring home food and then he services you four times a week....and you think someting is wrong because "sometimes" he can't ***.
When you have this situation "everyday" or "all of the time" then complain or be concerned.
You like many other women have way too much time on their hands and invent problems when everything compared to your peers are going great!
Enjoy your above average sex lives and "quit yer bitchin"
If it aint broke don't fix it!
2006-10-18 11:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, I've never heard of a man being too tired for sex after looking at porn. If it was right after, ok it could happen, but WAY earlier in the day sounds weird.
Ask him or just give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-10-18 11:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be for any of those reasons. I'm 40 and only have sex once per week. My drive is just not that strong. Though I will say the number of times I've not been able to finish is less than two - sometimes you just have to keep trying. ;)
2006-10-18 11:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Scotsman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either/or. It's probably got to do with his age, look for cialis or viagra to help him. I don't like the idea of my hubby looking at porn and taking care of it himself, but we all know it happens!! But if he's getting it up to 4 times a week at the age of 40, he shouldn't have to!
2006-10-18 10:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May be he dose not feel like he wants to *** and is just doing it for the pleasure of being able to make love to such a beautiful young Lady .
OR
It could be that his sperm had not bulit up enough from his early morning jack session.
OR
You really don't do it for him.
2006-10-18 11:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by madoutlaw_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 40, he should physically be able to do it at least twice a day, even twice in an hour, so it's not his age, and it's not porn.
Let him focus on you if he's not going to come.
He can decide on his own to see a doctor if he is concerned.
2006-10-18 11:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by groundzero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone, I suppose it could be for many different reasons; men need to "be in the mood" too, you know. He may be tired, stressed out, hungry, not feeling well, or any number of things. It may be age-related... No one's a superman, really. Happens to younger guys, too.
2006-10-18 11:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the problem is all I can say is I wish I had your energy I'm 30yrs old and I've been married 4 yrs and I'm burnt out already.
More power to you, Honey!!
2006-10-18 11:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by AlishaM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man and I do it about the same, we are about your same ages too.
Sometimes if he has worked really hard he is just tired! I notice if he has had a bad day, he is less in the mood.
Goodness I love being in my thirties though as a woman! WEEEE!
2006-10-18 11:07:26 · answer #11 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋