me and my girlfriend work at the same restrant she's a manager and im just a crew member but people are starting to talk about me and her being together around our work place and couples are not aloud to work together.. we have kept a low profile about us but still people are starting to talk so i decided before on of us gets fired ill be the one to look for a new job so i got hired today at a place makeing almost a dollar less then there but im eagger to leave there should i wait to find something better or take it sense its there and fast
2006-10-18 10:19:11 · 11 answers · asked by blueeyes3313 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't be so eager. The best time to look for a job is when you already have one. Otherwise, you end up desperate and taking the first crummy, low paying job that comes along because if you have no income you get scared and start thinking you may not get another offer. Just slow down a little bit and you'll find something. If you are already working in a restaurant and that is the type of work you like to do, try looking for a job waitressing. Especially if you are 21. Serving drinks also serves up better tips.
2006-10-18 10:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wiccan Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to work at a fast food restaurant and i began dating my manager. In the end i had to quit because it created too much drama with her bosses when everyone found out she was dating someone who worked for her. It is probably best to start looking for another job now before it gets to that point especially if you intend on this being a long term relationship.
2006-10-18 17:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by tntstroup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the new job before upper management finds out and you both lose your jobs. Not because of you being gay but most jobs have policies about dating a co-worker - especially because she is your manager. You can find a new job later if you don't like the new job. Good luck.
2006-10-18 17:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you getting fired is a real possibility, it's probably best to take the other job right away and keep looking for something better. what does your girlfriend say?
2006-10-18 17:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the other job, and keep your eyes open for a even better one. If you both get fired from the first job it will be way worse
2006-10-18 17:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lexi Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are making a right decision. If you stay any longer, you are endanger you and your parnter's job. You can get the new job and find other job at the same time.
2006-10-18 17:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to get away from your current job, take that one and look for another job while you're at your new one.
2006-10-18 17:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evan is right on the money!
even if you suffer a little financially, it's better than suffering a lot psychologically at your current job
2006-10-18 17:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave she will cheat on you the second your back is turned...just kidding..leaving might make things better..or worst...it only up to you and your lover..I would rather work away from my lover...so shyt happen at home you got a place to cool down a bit ...talk to her over a bowl of fruit loops..and remember...trixs is for kids..silly rabbit..
2006-10-18 17:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
take it for now, you can always look for something better later on
2006-10-18 17:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by KellyJeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋