I know this has been talked about a lot, but here's situation:
I'm half asian and half white. My Dad's uncircumsized and I guess my parents are both happy with it so they never circumsized me. Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly fine with the decision. In fact, I've read that it feels better for guys that are uncircumsized because there's more sensitivity. Anyhow, because a majority of men here in the US is circumsized. I can't help to be a little self-conscious at times. I only had 1 sexual partner so far, my gf in high school of 2 years. This is my 1st year in college and I just recently met a girl. I think we're pretty close to sleeping together. So should I tell her I'm uncircumsized before she pulls off my pants? Or do I just let her find out herself?
I've always kept it really clean down there and my high school gf actually once said he liked my uncircumsized penis more than circumsized, but then again I was her first and only partner at the time.
2006-10-18 10:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you think she is not used to it (most American women aren't if they're not from a culture that doesn't circumsize), you should tell her. I'm 27 and have never been with someone who isn't, and if me and my bf were gettin it on, in the moment, I'd be a bit surprised to say the least. Not even sure what I'd do with it.
Obviously, it's not a big deal, but you shouldn't wait til the heat of the moment to have someone find out like that.
2006-10-18 10:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by cb4556 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a women and Ive experienced both. Let her find out for herself....telling her would be rather awqward....cant imagine that conversation. Sure she will be OK with it. I was never alarmed....it will be fine....keep it clean. Remember circumsized men has 25% more! Not sure that's true but sure I read it somewhere and yes you are more sensitive. My hubby is 'done' my two boys are NOT...they know how to keep it clean...and less people are opting for the bald look now..enjoy what you have and stop stressing! Good luck
2006-10-18 10:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have the discussion with her, only because if I'm able to be intimate with a woman then I can and probably have had sexual conversations with her before. Find out if she's been with an uncut guy before. It may be a huge turn on for her , very diffrent. I'm cut and like the way it looks. So do the women Ive been with. I have never heard of people being disgusted by it it's just a choice and makes for variety. She and you will have alot more pleasure finding what works for you . ( if she's been with cut men before) And it's totally cool to have a woman fondoling and exploring your tool anyhow.
2006-10-18 10:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaiian Bruddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, definantly let her know. If you're both mature and ready for sex, then you should be mature enough to discuss it thoroughly. I myself have never been w/ an uncircumcised man and in all honesty I have no idea how oral or manual stimulation techniques should or shouldn't differ. Give her a chance to get use to the idea. Its totally not a bad thing. Its just a lot of women haven't been exposed to it before. First time sex can be awkward enough to begin with. Besides, talking about sex is always great foreplay.
2006-10-18 10:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by swisted 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most younger girls would not even know what circumcism is. I don't think you need to tell any girl whether you are or not but its okay to tell her. You may need to explain it further to them though. I believe your parents guided you in the correct way . I prefer men who have not been circumsized. I had my three sons circumsized because I did not know anything about it then. I hope they are okay with it now.
2006-10-18 10:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly cares about you, don't be worried! You should let her find out herself. I am a lady and if it were me, I probably wouldn't want the heads up. Let her accept you and never be self-conscious about it. It's a natural thing, just less common. She should appreciate that you take really good care of yourself and it will show her that you are comfortable with your body without the warning her ahead of time.
2006-10-18 13:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by adrienneschippers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm uncircumsized too. Let her find out. As long as you're clean down there, I can't imagine her being bothered by it, she'll probably be excited, because it's not what she expected to see. Good luck with her!
2006-10-18 10:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its irrelevant to me so Id say let her find out for herself.
2006-10-18 10:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋