2006-10-18 09:48:31 · 13 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DUMP him and move on
2006-10-18 09:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is with all these people automatically saying dump the guy? Here is what I think. Your boyfriend may not realize he is taking you for granted. My boyfriend and I went though the same thing. We go through it occasionally because sometimes when you are with someone for so long you tend to start to take them for granted. You probably won't realize it but your partner will. The key to working through this is communication. My boyfriend and I wouldn't be celebrating our 3 year anniversary tomorrow if we didn't communicate. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Try not to sound like you are accusing him of anything or get upset or angry. Just talk calmly and collected. That is the best way I found to communicate with my boyfriend. They tend to clam up and get defensive if they think you are "attacking" him. He may not even realize he is making you feel like that. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-18 17:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy! I wish I new the secret. The only thing I can suggest is not to give in too easily to him. Make him work at the relationship. Don't give in to his every need. Take some time for yourself. If you are more independant, he`ll eventually respond. Show him that you have other interests besides just him.
2006-10-18 16:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who take any woman for granted is a fool.
dont worry about it there is always someone else who will appreciate u no matter wot. My boyfriend takes me for granted so i stoped giving and making an effort he soon realised and changed his ways.
2006-10-18 16:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Empress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't ! If I would have got out a long time ago I would have never been going thru this too! Now he yells screams curses and is a total dick ! the only way to change is what i'm trying to do now is to ignore him.
2006-10-18 16:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him or get rid of him and he'll realize what he's missing. If not, it wasn't meant to be.
I think relationships should flow and not be full of heartache and sadness.
If you have to worry or you feel like he's not treating you right, get out.
2006-10-18 16:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him immediately
2006-10-18 16:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay around for another 2weeks to 3weeks let him know it's bothering you. If he don't care leave him.
2006-10-18 16:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't feel appreciated. Give specific examples. If he isn't at least willing to try to get better, leave. You deserve to be happy and if he can't provide that it's his problem.
2006-10-18 16:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by lilbig_t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another one
2006-10-18 16:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by mtzstaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋