i'm a guy and i hang out with girls all the time. i luv everything about being a girl... shopping, make-up, fashion... yea, guys :) how do i tell my friends i want to be a girl. thanks so much.
2006-10-18 09:40:02 · 15 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You picked a hard life. I'm not discounting your feelings, but you'll have to go through a whole process before you can actually become a girl. You have to make good and sure that that is what you want! I'm gay. Way back when I was first coming out, I thought that I wanted to be a girl to... If I think and feel soooooooo much like a girl, then why not make it much easier, and become one? Well, I've been through some therapy, and got in touch with myself, as well as learning more about life in the gay community. I've learned to love myself exactly the way I am, even though sometimes, I don't feel like I belong in this man's body! I think if they are true friends, they will love and respect you no matter what. I have 2 or 3 friends like that... It's great. Don't worry about your friends so much as yourself. Learn all you can. My sincere love and support to you!
2006-10-18 09:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that you can like shopping, make-up, fashion, and guys as a guy, right? Unless you've always felt that you should be a girl, that you were meant to have been a girl, that your role in society should be as a girl, that you want for everyone to think of you as a girl, then you may be a girl, maybe. It is possible to be a guy and have bi-gendered tendencies! If you still think that you should be a girl, please know that you will need to have years of therapy before you'll be able to do anything about it--as-in, doctors won't prescribe hormones and gender reassignment surgery until you both are confident in the decision.
2006-10-18 10:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by zea_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cute crimson and white checked maximum appropriate, like a golfing tee or mild woolen vest could look cute and attractive. undeniable shade for base at backside and character/ trend at maximum appropriate. Dont practice too lots flesh at maximum appropriate because of the fact the skirt is mini even although you have tights, sq. toed black shoe with a heel no longer too intense or apartments. Hair parted to area and tied decrease back could look very stylish!
2016-10-19 23:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for wanting to be the better of the species. Try to get in touch with doctors that specialize in this. If after they explain all the technical stuff to you, you still want to, go ahead. Please really think and pray about this one first.
2006-10-19 03:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by illuminessa.villasenor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
randi,
You will lose some friends, but my bet is that you are already known. You have to be brave, and just tell them OR you just be who you want to be, and let them figure it out. You don't have to tell them anything! But you will be treated differently, that's where the bravery comes in.
2006-10-18 09:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them at this point you are a crossdresser, but that you keep it somewhat private, but you need to talk to females about it and want some advice and you feel you can trust them, Yea, I am a crossdresser myself,
2006-10-18 19:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're your friends, you shouldn't have to worry. The ones that run off with their arms flailing in the air because they're too insecure for it weren't any good for you anyway.
2006-10-18 09:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by seethingnuclearchaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Because you can love shopping, love fashion, and be a makeup artist.
2006-10-18 09:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Onique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really good friends that you hang out with then they probably already know.
2006-10-18 18:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by mamacitac9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be a girl to love those things, so its a long process.... start with a physiologist. Good luck..
2006-10-18 09:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋