2006-10-18 09:33:37 · 15 answers · asked by GREENEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OF course!!!!!!!!! Never let your insecurites keep you from doing what you want. just walk up to him, and keep telling yourself you are the most beautiful girl in the room. trust me, this is the BESTEEST way to boost your confidance..flaunce what youre proud of, hide what your not!
and just strike up a conversation with him. don't avoid eye contact ,speak clearly, dont mumble, dont play with your hair or clothes too much, and after a few days of this, ask him out!
2006-10-18 09:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long you approach him in a way that says you're confident but not arrogant, then he should at least agree to having a drink or something, and that way the two of you can talk and find out if you have anything in common. If the two of you hit it off, then you'll know that he isn't bothered by your size. Good luck!
2006-10-18 09:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldnt he like you just because you are fat? Fat people date all the time and even get married.Unless you know for sure he doesent like overweight dates? That wouldnt stop me from getting to know someone personally.
2006-10-18 09:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think he likes you, why would you ask him out????
This has nothing to do with you being fat.....
Why would you want someone who isn't interested in you??
That would be a one-sided relationship... you can do so much better. You need to be with someoone who likes you just as much as you like them...
Do not settle for second-best you so deserve the whole thing....
2006-10-18 09:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the chances of you asking someone out who doesn't like you doesn't have a good outcome, regardless of your size. Ask a guy out if you BOTH have that flirty, gitty feeling and you won't be disappointed. You said for yourself he doesn't like you, SO? End story. The reasons are irrelevant. Don't set yourself up for disappointment.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-18 10:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miss smarty pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should step up to him and ask him if he would like to hang out with you or go grab something to munch on. if you dont do something about it now, you may never know what might have happened. you would drag along each day just thinking of the possibilities and sulking because youre too afraid.
girl, you aint got nothing to lose. be brave and go for it. try something new and just go for it!
goodluck!
2006-10-18 09:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not fat, you are just big boned. If you dont think he likes you then why would you ask him out?
2006-10-18 09:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't think of yourself as fat. Low self-esteem. Anyways. Yes you should, and if he rejects you, he obviously doesn't know the real you and is judging by appearance and isn't worthy of someone like you.
2006-10-18 09:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should still ask him, he might like some cushin for the pushin. It's whats on the inside that counts. Be yourself and your guaranteed a date with him. Good luck!
2006-10-18 09:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe a guy would not go out with you because you are large . It doesn't matter the size
2006-10-18 09:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋