I am a senior in high school. Lately I have been confused. It's hard to describe in words but I'll try. I feel like I'm being pushed and pulled in every direction. I try to concentrate in school and pull off some clubs and sports and I'm involved, but I don't feel good inside. I like a girl and we went out a few times, but now she is one of my classes and I think I'm getting tired of her. Not only that, but I have too many commitments but at the same time I know that if I wasn't so active I'd probably just spend my free time sleeping or watching TV or whatever. Now I don't even know what to think of life, whether it's good or bad, everything seems so dull and uninteresting. I try to enjoy life but even that seems cliched to me. I don't even know what to do or think anymore. Please help me?
2006-10-18 09:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not that I'm not happy with my life, because I am, but it just seems so unfulfilling?
2006-10-18 09:21:20 · update #1
I know how u feel i was in the military i worked part time i had functions meetings reports calsses all kinds of stuff and tried to maintain a relationship. I got burned out i got depressed and tired and uninterested. Trie cutting down on the things u do take time for yourself and every one else be damned. Its your life not theirs if u enjoy the young ladys company spend time with her if not then dont. Whats the point of being alive if u dont live??? Live your life for u . Im not saying turn yer back on yer family and friends. Just let them know your feelings and say u need time for u even if its just sleeping or watching tv . Let loose dont try to be every where for everyone . take time to go fishing or just go sit in the woods and watch the birds and squrialls. Whatever just relax is my point . Take Time to Enjoy Life because if u dont . U wont have one.
2006-10-18 09:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you are a bit over committed. Take a moment to prioritize what truly matters. It is better to be a little involved than too involved since it will lead to burnout. As far as the girl in concerned, be honest with yourself and her and let her go. Parting as friends is not shameful. Besides, your focus in life should be your education and not your social life. As time passes and you continue to succeed you will find other people like you who are also busy making their mark in life. There will be plenty of other girls along the way and you should only pick one who has your same mind set and drive to achieve. It is said that women are dream killers. This is because many will hang on to you for what you can provide (golddigers) instead of bringing their own contribution to the family empire. It is best to forget girls altogether for a few years and concentrate on achieving your mark. Live an INTENTIONAL life. Nothing worth having was ever handed down. Be jealous of your affection and do not be distracted by the flowers along the way. Aim for the stars and do not let anyone hold you back, specially an ignorant girl with kids from another relationship.
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2006-10-18 16:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I may be much older, I too feel like I am being pushed an pulled in every direction at times.
As for life.. dull and uninteresting it would sound like your spending too much time on things that may not fit your purpose. We all have purpose, the secret is finding yours. Consider the things that really turn you on (not sexually) but those things you enjoy doing, the things your good at and interest you. It is better to narrow down to a few than spreading your self so thin that you cant enjoy any of them. For me I like woodworking and being outdoors.
Not to preach at you... but my life has finally become "real" and fulfilling now that I have a relationship with Jesus Christ. Its not about religion, it is about a true loving relationship. He is real
2006-10-18 16:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life a lesson which never stops..UL learn something new everyday..seeing to much of the person you like is never good but its how you deal with the problem now that will teach you the lesson that might come up again in later life
2006-10-18 16:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life has its ups and downs, you will get back up soon
2006-10-18 16:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋