I still like my bf but i want some space and i want to be single.should i dump him?
2006-10-18 09:04:41 · 11 answers · asked by buble c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you just said it (i still like him).i don't think you know what you want and you sound confused for some reason!so what at least i would do if i was in your place is would have a serious talk to him and say that you need sometime off!..don't dump him yet as you never know,you might regret it after if you did!because NONE of us in here has the right to say dump the guy as we dont know him!he might be a genuin guy!
So what i suggest is that you just have a time off ,just so you can see where your heart and mind sets you to!..and i believe YOU will come out with the best answer,after having a long time thinking about what you want to do!
All the best!
p.s would like to know how things turns out with you.IM me anytime :) all the best!
2006-10-18 09:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ghass 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your not sure if you want to be with him or not. Yes you should definitely break up with him. Its best to let him know how you feel and than go from there. Its not fair to him if you don't break up with him as he will think everything is going ok in the relationship. Communication is a good thing and if he loves you he will give you the space that you need.
2006-10-18 16:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by cutegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it like this if you need space and you want to be single you should dump him. it shouldn't be a hard decision. if you have come to this point then you know what you should do. be nice about it and you still might be friends in the end. you shouldn't need the advice from anybody else to break it off with him if it's you that wants to be single. its your choice and no one else can make that decision for you
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2006-10-18 16:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sabra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep him around just to be nice to him, then you are being unfair to yourself and dishonest to him.
Explain to him (to his face and not over the phone or email) that you have reached a part in your life that you feel stifled by the relationship and need some personal space to think things out. (If this is true) tell him that you wanting space has nothing to do with him personally, that you like him and all that, but it's about you.
2006-10-18 16:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him and just want some space, tell him you don't want to break up, just to take a break from dating for a while
2006-10-18 16:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Have a good time and maybe you find can someone you really enjoy spending time with. Don't ever get to the point that you think will hurt someone, feel sorry for them. Be happy he'll go on with his life and more than likely find someone new. Feeling sorry for someone and staying will make your life so miserable that you'll get to the point of hating him.
2006-10-18 16:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say dump it sounds bad! LOL! tell him how you feel. If he loves you he'll give you your space. Cause it he loves you he'll want you to be happy!
2006-10-18 16:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ellie j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because he will be more mad if you cheat or flirt with other ppl. but he will prob be mad for a whil...i was wen my gf dumped me, but when i thought about it i knew it was for the best. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 16:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for a break if you still want him go back to him. if you don't drop him
2006-10-18 16:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by readerfreak10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do probably like him but if you are feeling him as you used to then just drop it but remember communication and it would all be fine.
2006-10-18 16:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by issa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋