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My boyfriend found a small lump in his ball. We are both unemployed, and pretty much are at threat of loosing everything we have. He has anger issues and well...

He forgot the address to the doctors we were going to today. He was drving, he got upset and started driving crazy. He spun the wheels till they screeched, and drove 90 on the expressway (limit 65) and I sat there shaking. When we got back to the apartment he looked up address, called them and told them he was running late. I told him I wasn't going with him. He left, came back took my money (from my check for his appointment... $220) and told me he wasn't coming home.

I don't know what to do... I don't want a reply like "dump him" we have lived together for 2 years... we have a nice apartment, etc. give me real answers with good reason.

2006-10-18 08:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

5 answers

He was upset. It's understandable. Let it go, let him chill out.

Don't be to pushy to him.

2006-10-18 08:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0 0

You both need to calm down and start thinking of better ways to deal with the problems of life. Life has its twists and turns, so you need to be focused in order to survive in this jungle called society. You must start looking for a job and then deal with all other issues. The more you focus on loosing everything, the more anxious you will get. As for your boyfriend, he needs to get an anger management program or he will be in big trouble. If he does not listen, then you need to make a drastic decision that may affect your relationship with him, but you need to be sound and safe in order to succeed......God will lead your way..if you believe in him.

2006-10-18 16:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Big&Tall 2 · 0 0

I found a lump too... they removed one of my testicles and now I can't have kids... no doubt he is terrified of the same... scared people some times act odd. give him time to come around. if he doesn't, move on.

2006-10-18 16:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0 0

it sounds like to me that he is under a lot of stress and maybe he needs sometime to himself it might help for him to talk to some he dose not no like a counseller

2006-10-18 16:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by meme 1 · 0 0

Pray about it.

2006-10-18 15:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by crazytxbartender 2 · 0 0

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