I mean to say that ur friendship is probably for 10 years n suddenly ur sweet friend turns into ur enemy n tries to snatch each and every friend or well wisher...
2006-10-18 08:41:56 · 20 answers · asked by Shaani SK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a new friend.
Unless you think you want to talk it out. But, if she betrayed you and hurt you so deeply, perhaps that wound will never heal.
Can you trust her again? If no, then you need to let this "friendship" languish.
2006-10-18 08:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best friend who betrayed me as well. I'll tell you what my sister says: "You don't need a friend. F*** a friend!" Not saying I necessarily agree with her, because everyone needs at least 1 friend, but you know how she is now, right? Don't try to get even with her, act like it don't even phase you. Be cool about it, and let it go. Your real friends will be able to see through her BS and your love won't give her the time of day! Be strong, you'll be alright.
2006-10-18 08:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens alot. Sometimes, people change. I know because I thought I had the perfect friendship, then all of a sudden this person would turn really fickle and be nice one day and evil the next. I told this person that if you want my friendship, you are going to treat me the way that you'd want to be treated. Unfortunatley, it didn't work. I am no longer friends with that person, but if the person does apologize, that person is worth your friendship.
2006-10-18 09:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by lysette.oxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me already. I cut the ties.....at least until a few years past. Let time pass...you really need her out of your life right now. Maybe in a few years, she will mature. If that happens...you can resume your friendship. She sounds as though she is envious of you, and that's not good. She will bring you down, and friends are supposed to lift you up. Dump her now before it gets worse. Maybe after she finds out who she is, and she matures...you can try to be her friend again.
2006-10-18 08:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you might want to try talking to the person and telling them how you feel and if that doesn't work then I would just walk away from the friendship and go on with your life. You're better than that.
2006-10-18 08:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a victim. I suspect this "friend" never had respect for you in the first place, and has been waiting for the opportunity to victimize you, and now was finally the perfect time. Not being a victim is about empowering yourself, and confronting or retaliating against your abuser. Betrayal is the worst abuse.
2006-10-18 08:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that situation before. I had a "best-friend" for more than 10 years who ended up having sex with my past boyfriend....I hated her!!! I couldnt believe it...I was sad, mad, filled with rage!!! A year and a half passed by without talking to her and all of a sudden she found me on myspace....she asked for my firgiveness and I REALLY DID FORGIVE HER!!! BIG MISTAKE!!! She ended talking **** about me and my current man...I've decided that she's not worth my time and effort!!! Anybody who brings you down...is NOT A FRIEND...Good Luck
2006-10-18 09:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by La Caballota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but people change. Maybe at one time this person was your friend, but obviosly now, they are not. A real friend wouldn't do such a thing. I would say forget about it, as hard as it sounds. If the other peope you thought cared about you are under her spell, that just makes them as weak as she is. Get new friends, better friends, you deserve it.
2006-10-18 08:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start from scratch. i did after a friendship of 14 years. I don't miss the piece of crap or the people who were his friends. I finally am at peace!
2006-10-18 09:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋