I from europ and i maried to african man and we are now 7 years together and have one beautifull son. Januari this year i move to africa cuz my man want to be back to his family. Now thing had change. Is so hard to be in africa. I m all alone in my house don't know no body pluse all my husband friends don't like me here. Most of african girls hate me becuz i m white and they think that my man should maried to african girl. Now he here in africa he really don't have time for me enymore. all day long i be in the house and i can't go out side becuz when i go alone all african people will run to me and ask money. When i park the car on the raod i need to lock my car. I stay in african country that just finish war. So thing is not really save here. I m here now about 10 months and i getting crazy here. Want to go back to europ , but i love my husband alot. What shoulsd i do? The problem is that my man never have time for me and my son enymore. I really miss my family.
2006-10-18 08:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did u talk with him ,what u fell? talk with him and say him u are unhappy. i am married with one man different contry and religion....and i lived in his country 6 years and he doesnt care about me....now i live in my country and i am happy......i know how hard is for you.if u wanna speak with me i let u my id:katelove2007@yahoo.com
2006-10-18 09:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear:
What more proof u need that this man doesnot love you anymore? Donot stay another minute in this relationship coz u might lose your life! Maybe he is cheating on you, ashamed of you and the only reason he took you to his country is becoz of his son .
Sice Africa got soo much voodoo and stuff u gotta be careful! Dear live your life without shame and stigma and before it is too late go back to Europe!
Good luck and be careful. You love him but he doesnot love you, so there is no need to stay and if he loved you he would move to Europe with you! Go home!
Love SANAM
2006-10-18 15:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell your husband you want to visit your family and not all africans are like that I am part african because my pops is from Egypt. Midlle East i know. Just tell him you don't feel the same in Africa, tell him that u dont want to stay.
2006-10-18 15:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell your husband that you are going back to europe with your son if things dont change give it a month or so and go back then see if he is willing to help out then.
2006-10-18 15:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called cultural shock..you didn't have any idea how it would be..I was the same moving over to Eu from USA you should invite family to come visit you or TELL your hubby you are going to go home every year in order to coupe you will need to change his ways force him to remember how alone he felt when he was in EU for the first time and knew no one
2006-10-18 18:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move back to Europe.
2006-10-18 15:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with your husband, and if he loves you enough, he will not subject you to this unbearable situation any longer.
2006-10-18 15:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-18 15:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋