t's good that your friend let you know about her problem, people who have stopped cutting often say the first step is the hardest - admitting to or talking about cutting. But they also say that after they open up about it, they often feel a great sense of relief. Others who can point her in the right direction for further help (a parent, school counselor, teacher, doctor, or nurse etc) should be notified.
There's may be complex feelings or situations that are causing her action, including anger, pressure, relationship problems, loss or trauma, mean criticism or mistreatment. She may have trouble figuring this part out on her own. This is where a mental health professional can be helpful. Most people with deep emotional pain or distress need to work with a counselor or mental health professional to sort through strong feelings, heal past hurts, and to learn better ways to cope with life's stresses. One way to find a therapist or counselor is to ask at your doctor's office, at school, or at a mental health clinic in your community.
Although the pattern can be difficult to break, it is surely possible. Getting professional help is one of the best way to overcome the problem . Therapists and counselors are trained to help people discover inner strengths that help them heal. These inner strengths can then be used to cope with life's other problems in a healthy way
2006-10-18 08:43:16
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answered by sunshine25 7
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No, I consistently bypass to the hairdresser. that would not consistently assure a physically powerful result nevertheless, a actuality to which i can attest after a haircut I had 2 days in the past. i'm not too happy with the haircut i've got have been given, and that i can not wait till it grows lower back.
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answered by ? 4
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Talk to a school counselor and tell what she's doing. They can talk to her and get her help, because she needs more than your prayers. This is a sign of some real depression. Be a friend. Get her help!
2006-10-18 08:41:38
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to tell her mother , your mother or the school counselor. Your friend is in need of some serious help. She will probably be angry but if you do care about it you need to do it to help her.
2006-10-18 08:44:34
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answered by MUD 5
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Ther mus be a reason behind the pain. Ask her wat happ. Try doin new stuff together. Make her feel loved and if possible ask her 2 see a shrink n go wt her.
2006-10-18 08:43:23
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answered by Typhoid Mary 2
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She needs counseling! See if you can convince her to go! Offer to go with her. Tell her how worried you are of her.
2006-10-18 08:41:34
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answered by Gramms 4
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Quick, learn to become nurse and milk money from her.
2006-10-18 08:45:45
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answered by Anonymous
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www.selfharm.net
Not sure ...be careful ...read this site ...maybe you have to accept ...you can not help her or control her ...just inform your self and maybe you will understand why
2006-10-18 08:44:15
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answered by pineforestkim 3
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Buy her a economy pack of band-aids.
2006-10-18 08:39:40
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answered by Darien 3
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if she's young tell her parents or a concelor or teacher
2006-10-18 08:39:34
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answered by S 5
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