Yeah i had this boyfriend that kept messing around on me and time after time i kept taking him back. This time i finally told him that it was over. The only problem is I can't get over him. I just keep answering his phone calls. I know that i shouldn't even think about giving him another chance but i want to so bad. I love him and just can't get myself to not talk to him or just forget about him. What should i do
2006-10-18 08:36:54 · 4 answers · asked by shorty_3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gain some self-respect and remember why he is an ex.
Good for you for telling him this time that it was over. Think of all the times he made you feel bad, humiliated you, cheated on you, and made you miserable. Then get mad!
That'll help you get over him!
2006-10-18 08:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is called lovesickness, honestly i don't know what he did to make you happy doing all that...but you still have a connection with him because of what he's done for you in the past.
NOw you have to analyze yourself....do you want to be a drama queen, and feed off the negative love you get from wanting a cheater? Or do you want to live a much BETTER and more REASONABLE life, by focusing on yourself, and finding somebody much more suited for your life?
I knew a girl JUST LIKE YOU, who was with her ex for 3 years, all this LOVE n stuff, well he didn't wanna get married and they broke up, then it was off n on, and then he found some other girl, and eventually he was just leading her on. Well just like you, she was STILL in love with this guy, and *ahem* unfortunately i got involved...I became..the rebound guy..which was a mistake, DON'T EVER DO that.....don't get a rebound guy....get a good friend, not a rebound guy...somebody that'll listent to your problems, and if you MUST have a sexual rebound, do it with someone who's a playa....I'm not a playa, i got attached....and she was still in love with that guy...not me...so.....you do the math...ANYWAY, she eventually found some other guy, and from what i hear she's getting married, so FOCUS ON YOU....and find a good friend.....and do your BEST to just put him out of your life...and you'll be fine.
2006-10-18 08:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put him on call screening there for he cant get through. think about how bad he made you feel instead of how bad you miss him. You see a man will keep cheating on you as long as you let him get away with it. you may be letting him get away with but remember you can get over a heartbreak but you cant get over or cure AIDS. So would you rather miss him or you be missed RIP.
2006-10-18 08:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by miss lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably need ot go out and meet some ppl maybe u'll meet a guy that looks good and will be truthful that usually helps a little bit
2006-10-18 08:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋