im 20 want to get married, i have been told im young. but what if u are 100 % sure of what u are gettin ur self in to? Is it still too young to get married?
2006-10-18 08:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by erika d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know when you know.
This sounds stupid, but, at 20 you are old enough to have made some good decisions, some bad decisions, and the difference between both and hopefully you know that you have to deal with the consequences of all of your decisions -- both good and bad.
Really, really, really give yourself an honest evaluation of how you want to live out the rest of your life and how you think that you will live out the rest of your life. Think about careers, a home, a family, the bills and responsibilities that come with all of these.
Remember that you do have time on your side and there really is no rush. If this is the one for you, spend the next couple of years dedicated to preparing yourselves for the future and then get married. Have all of the crazy, pre-marrieage chaos and fun you want and then tie the knot.
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-18 08:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that 20 is okay if you have the life experience to back it up. If you went straight from high school to dorm room without having a full time job, you might not be ready. If you've made some decisions, made some money, and seen what's out there for you, go for it.
I was 22 and my husband 21 when we got married, on the one-year anniversary of when we first talked online. We're very happy still, but we knew enough about life to relate to each other and make good decisions together.
2006-10-18 08:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not to young and it is up to you date 1 minute or a live time get married when you want and are ready..... people meet and get married every day ,some at onces others after years of dateing ,,,in ether case it may last a minute marriage or a live time .......
2006-10-18 08:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by JIMMY B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I wanted to get married at 20---basically, your hormones are still messing with your head and you're too young. 49% of the US population is married---maybe you should wait. Try living with the person first. There's no rush. I'm 24 and STILL not ready to get married.
2006-10-18 08:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I am 32 and I am still not sure of what I have gotten myself into. Married life can be difficult, but it can also be wonderful. Just remember when you are married their isn't any room for you, it is we or us. Time will tell if you are with the right person. Make sure you know each other well and make sure that you can live with them and all their faults.
2006-10-18 08:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in the forties get married and find them selves in a mess.
They always say you should date someone at least four seasons.
Which is a year. If the person is still the same , than chances are
you know them well enough. Even with that their is no guarantees.
2006-10-18 08:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 is a young age, i don't know what the rush is, but you are legal so if you found the right person you want to marry go ahead
2006-10-18 08:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 % is extremely low determine for fist and 2nd mortgages in the u . s .... it is bigger! Date how long? in case you % it to final, replace into ultimate acquaintances over numerous years and reaaly love the guy, no longer for the intercourse act. If she needs a ring and so on interior of a 12 months and marriage interior of t 2, pass away her. It takes time for advance a real lasting friendship. study all approximately a thank you to be your guy or woman ultimate buddy,l and make sure you do those issues to and with yet another. intercourse is the least important component in terms of admire and loving somebody, although, loss of intercourse can deliver approximately divorces. undesirable intercourse can strengthen with artwork...be sure you the two ultimately to perform a little experimenting in mattress and attempt now issues. working example, i does no longer marry a woman who did no longer french kiss, or who laid in mattress like a lump of crap no longer feeling something. i could reject a woman who %; bodily sparkling, or who needed me to observe each be conscious i pronounced, or who demanded I do issues right here way and in basic terms her way....I additionally like a woman with some boobs, and that i remember having to no longer date a flat chested lady because of the fact it appeared to me too very like relationship a guy,. we are all distinctive, and we are all entitled to those characteristics in yet another we could like. although, no longer something is acceptable.
2016-10-19 23:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule ...However, I would suggest you take time to know yoursel very well, oberserve discretly your mate in many differents situations, especially in public, the way he or she treats his (her) family, friends....to get to know the real person without knowing that you observe him (her).
Between 20 and 25, man and women keep changing their mind, their value and their objectives.
2006-10-18 08:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by years_1914 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like that person very much and u stay with him 4 over 3year i guess that it working. But u will have to stay with him 4 4year.............
2006-10-18 08:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by beunka m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋