my husband denies cheating and there is so many clues there. I left the house about 2mon it had been already 4 mon of him not been around (6now) not providing not nothing. i wanted to keep him by been intimate w/him, but thing just got compliticated i started finding out things about him seen his friends wife it drove me crazy just thoughts of when & how it started why her? i dont want to be intimate with him anymore but i fall 4it everytime. ilove him i know i do, but he doesnt even provide for our 2 girls why do i want a man like that back in mylife, i left now why do i keep calling him, he treats horrible cuz i keep asking for the truth why not just tell me the truth wouldnt that help me move on instead of keeping me around hanging from a string! He obviously want what he has now with/her so why not just tell me the truth. im intimate with him whenever he wants 2 i have hope that all this is just insecurity but i cant bare the pain anymore. someone pls help brianda@cheerful.com
2006-10-18 08:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up and except it -- he cheated.
If you want intimacy, find someone that is going to give you the time of day.
Hate to sound harsh but I am tired of listening to every whine all the time about how you "fell for him again" ... get real, they are losers -- move on with your life
He is not the one that is "hanging you from a string" -- you are doing this to yourself.
2006-10-18 08:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is right in front of you:
-He moved out
-He is not fulfilling his financial resposability
-He treats you like crap
-He has someone else
What other "clues" do you want????? You are in denial.
He treats you like that because you let him. You call him just to give him yet another opportunity to diss you cruelly. Are you addicted to this humilliation?
He is not bringing home the bacon because you let him. File for child support. He will get back on track.
He uses you for s ex. No men will turn down a piece of a... you are letting him use you. Sleeping with you doesn't mean that he wants to come back with you, on the contrary, it lets him know how much little selfrespect you have for yourself.
Get smart lady
Good luck
2006-10-18 16:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats, he doesn't provide for the kids and he treats you badly. O.K. what part of that do you love? you need to get some self respect and move on. There are a lot of men out there who want to be good husbands or boyfriends. Stop wasting your time being miserable with some one who will continue to hurt and use you.
2006-10-18 21:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by rufi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brianda
You just need to move on because there is nothign for you with him. He doesn't love you and if you knew the truth it wouldn't help it would just make you feel worst but this is a reason that you should jusat leave him alone. Move on it's best.
if you need to talk kikit_kteara@yahoo.com
2006-10-18 15:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice role models the 2 of you are for your 2 girls, huh?
Daddy is a lying cheater who treats his wife like dirt.
Mommy is so wrapped up in her own silly "feelings" she doesn't even have enough self-respect to stop chasing him down.
Your kids are watching and learning from you both.
Do you want them to marry a man like him?
Do you want them to behave like you in a relationship?
2006-10-18 15:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he cheated. Leave him and move on. I am sure the pain is nothing compared to trying to read your post.
Try using proper English.
2006-10-18 16:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
free sex and no financial commitment?
he has you exactly where he wants you!
you obviously feel unhappy, but he doesn't see that as his problem.
you really ought to get out of there and start a new life.
2006-10-18 15:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on and find a new husband!!
2006-10-18 15:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by TBONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some folks just enjoy wallowing in misery that they create. You madam, are one of them.
2006-10-18 15:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. He's not good for you or your kids. You deserve better.
2006-10-18 15:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋