Alot of young married couples are getting divorced? Do you feel the pressure of trying to keep your relationship.
2006-10-18 08:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by Keke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you, as an adult, recognize what marriage really is, their is no "pressure" to staying married.
Come on, we are not in HS and we continue to "go out" with Johnny just because everything else thinks we should.
Just take it day by day and your marriage will either survive or die based on the amount of perseverance and attention you give.
2006-10-18 08:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young couples feel the pressure of staying together because there friends and family use that line of I told you so, or I knew that you two were too young to get married in the first place. So yes in a lot of cases young couples have pressures of staying together. Now if the couple is in love they should be able to work out there difficulties and pressures. Like in any relationships there is always pressure it just depends on how much you and your spouse can endure....
2006-10-18 08:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cathleen Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way the upper class hotels would take them in after word got out they they are unwed. The hotels reputation would be ruined. . Perhaps what you can do is make it clear that the word spread from the kitchen helpers and delivery men to all the upper and middle class hotels (they love to gossip about a fallen person of privilege). So the couple has to retreat to the shady type hotels that criminals, laborers, prostitutes and sailors frequent. Only there would they find people that just wanted the money and wouldn't care about what the couples real story was... the lower class hotel management might also tip off the criminals that there is someone with money in residence, which could lead to a little plot turn.... Or the couple could take up residence in a high end brothel. The proprietor would have to have good reason for risking making the higher end clientele uncomfortable with offering shelter to two so fallen people.... But that could be an interesting sub plot too...
2016-05-22 00:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got married when I was 19 and he was 20. We are now 26 and 27. It has not been easy, but we have 22 kids and the pressure is there not to be another statistic. We have both grown up alot in this marriage, and we are doing better as we get older. About three years into the marriage I considered divorce, but my husband refused and now i am so glad that he did. We are happy and raising our family TOGETHER, which none of us had growing up.
2006-10-18 08:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by PRL8268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 when we got married and I felt very pressured to stay together b/c everyone said it would never last. We had our problems but were determined to work them out not just to prove everyone else wrong but because we had loved each other, still love each other, and will always love each other. Nothings perfect, even marriage. It takes work. I'm almost 30 now and we still feel the pressure every once in a while, now we just laugh at stuff sometimes..it takes the edge off. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 08:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why nobody should get married until they are in their twenties and have lived a while to know what the realities of life are. Married life isn't lover dovey all the time, hardships will come,
and when it does, handling them together is what separates the ones who know what love really is, and those who mistake infatuation for love. The latter will separate, or divorce, the former
bounded, by love will work things out mutually.
2006-10-18 08:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressure?? I think it's called keeping your promise and living up to the commitment you made.
Does any of this sound familiar?
I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.
I will trust you and honor you
I will laugh with you and cry with you.
I will love you faithfully
Through the best and the worst,
Through the difficult and the easy.
What may come I will always be there.
As I have given you my hand to hold
So I give you my life to keep.
2006-10-18 08:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married 4 years ( 28) and I feel the pressure... it's hard work. but my husband is worth all the struggles.......
2006-10-18 08:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by nycgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember why you got married first of all,this union of two becoming one is not as easy as say I do.Time to grow as one means sharing in each other. Marriage takes in all the makings of friendship; to receive the benefits you must deposit benefits toward your account. LOVE IS CARING MOST OF ALL LOVE IS LONGSUFFERING. TWO=ONE MATH MARRIAGE
2006-10-18 08:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by deacon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋