I can't get this guy out of my head. This other guy is really perfect for me but the one I'm with is almost perfect but lacks what this other guy has. But before you dog me....I'm not friends with this other guy and have never done anything wrong with him. I basically told him I have a boyfriend and showed no interest...but in reality I really connected with him. Do you think its a bad idea to try to reconnect with this guy?
2006-10-18 08:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, wot ive learned recently is, sumtimes u tink u connect with sum1, until u can actually hav dem, den, its nt so much fun anymore. i tink the thoughts and lettin ur imagination go a bit are half the reason u cud b tinkin bout him in the first place. best to b single to make a choice on tings like dat!
2006-10-18 08:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by dk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to mature a bit, describing a guy as really perfect, and almost perfect, or is this only until the better than perfect comes along. most girls are very happy with a real nice guy. You standards are out of whack
2006-10-18 15:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend first. It's only fair, then try to reconnect with the new guy. At least you won't always be wondering and your boyfriend won't be in the dark about what's going on and it shows you respect him enough to tell him.
2006-10-18 15:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and not married. In this life today, people jump into marriage and relationships without ever giving themselves a chance. I think you would be doing the right thing to explore other avenues. You want to be sure about your feelings before you get married. It's so hard after.
2006-10-18 15:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really think before going for the other guy because grass is not greener on the other side maybe he have those thing that your boyfriend dont but you have to think the fact that maybe he have a lots of thing your boyfriend have that the other guy have.
think about it sometimes we are better than we think
MAry
2006-10-18 15:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should reconnect and see if it was just a one time feeling and if there is more to it than you need to weigh the options and do what is best in you intrest and not think what other people will think only you know what is in your heart and what you want
2006-10-18 15:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by vomissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a connection is a relative thing, you wont know how good or bad you click with someone until you spend alot of time with them,, then we tend to overlook stuff that bothers us, and never realize the guy really isnt right for us
2006-10-18 15:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your current guy lacks that the new guys supposedly has. You're a little vague on the details. But to me, it sounds like you're already beginning to wander.....
2006-10-18 15:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by tyreewere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart! if it is telling you to be with someone else you should listen.. you might want to sit down and talk to your b/f now.. without using names just tell him that you have been having feelings for someone else that you just arent comfortable with, and tell him why.. so maybe he could work on what he is lacking for you...
2006-10-18 15:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Steph y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should.. after all your boyfriend, is only a boyfriend, and not husband.
2006-10-18 15:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by wdzone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋