as a teenager and young adult my boyfriend has had issues with porn addiction. He comes from a very religious household where he was never a good enough son to his mother. Even now he has issues with her negativity and lack of encouragement at the age of 26. We've been together 3 years and just last week I found out that he has been internet/phone friends with a woman in california for years who sends him naughty and explicit photos or video via phone. He has recently gotten a camera phone and he has also sent her the same type of material. I have no doubt he loves me, he treats me like a queen -- hes a perfect gentleman and my family loves him. I guess what I'm questioning is if I should even stick this through or break up until he fixes the issue. He cant afford "help" other than talking to his pastor which is his plan to do. I've broken up with him but I feel guilty like i'm abandoning him when he needs me the most... he really has nobody else to confide in. any advice?
2006-10-18 08:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by nena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its great he is seeking help, but I think you should be his encourager, dont shut him out completely, if you want to have a future with im you probably should show him tht you care, and be there for him.
2006-10-18 08:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you better start having doubts that he loves you. And excuse me, but a perfect gentleman does not send another woman explicit material of himself. Time for you to get off that pedestal you think he has put you on and realize what type of man he really is.
2006-10-18 08:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hwy2?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not sound like a boyfriend to me. If he's abusing you, it is not important how candy he could be. he's basically employing you and truly does not care approximately your wellness. I study that on popular it takes a woman seven tries to get out of an abusive relationship. attempt to talk to a counselor to diminish that selection for you as quickly as obtainable. If he's hurting you, then he's showing a push aside to your physique and your very own protection. Get out of that relationship and supply your self time to heal earlier attempting to locate somebody else.
2016-12-26 22:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by chatterton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to get help, keep your distance from him until he does, let him know you're not abandoing him but if wants things to work out with you he has to stop with the porn.
2006-10-18 08:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl it is not your fault the fact they he was cheating in you is all him and that is not being treated like a king.
2006-10-18 08:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋