I just want to know if there is a law or something that prevents me from doing this. She just turned 36 and is starting to show signs of it, I told her this and said honey I think it's time for us to be seeing other people and she didn't agree and cursed me out for a while so I went to my cabin until she cools down.
2006-10-18 07:54:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your a jerk,im sure your getting old too,what makes you think someone else would want you
2006-10-18 07:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me firstly ask you - are you getting younger?
I take it your about 15 or so.
No, it is never ok to divorce because you feel as though your
wife is getting too old.
Shouldn't that have been something to think about when you married her?
Perhaps You should have married a 5 year old so that
she could stay MUCH younger than you and won't grow as OLD
as you.
Come on..wake up to yourself???
Don't you love her? Isn't love a selfless thing?
Obviously you don't love her and have just married her because
of her looks.
We all get old, buddy. and that includes YOU TOO!!!
So, you don't have any lines or wrinkles???
Of course she would be MAD at you....
And, she's only 36. She isn't exactly, 86, is she.
You need to take a good look at your heart, buddy.
If you leave her for some 20 year old BIMBO(with no brains)
this BIMBO is gonna wake up one and day and look at you and think, "Heck, why did I marry this OLD Man when Jack down the road is looking much better" and she will DUMP you for some muscle-bound hunk of spunk.
Think about it!!!
Think very seriously about it.
You are going to crush your wife's heart if you divorce her.
Why not try and accept her for who she is and Love her.
Getting older isn't the end of the world.
If you are worried about looks, why not both try and get into some sport or physical fitness, or start eating better?
It's amazing how you can improve on your looks and extend your health and vitality.
Love is not based on looks.......
Love is giving......
Love never fails.....
It always protects, perserveres
Love.....never fails"
And if you think that's a fancy poem, I just made up, think again,
cause God wrote those words, not me.
Check it out in the bible......1 Cor. 13....
Good luck mate but I would advise you to examine your heart.
2006-10-18 08:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your screwed. LOL
Did u know 50 is the new 20 these days? She'll get all the good stuff and get a younger man. I say good for her. I say to you I'm sure your pretty old looking too. Old men like u don't seem to notice that fact. All well. Sucks to be you. LOL
2006-10-18 08:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a lifetime commitment of two person to one another. In fact, if it not considered to be for life, the marriage is completely invalid. That is why written into the vows of a ceremony are the words "for life." I recommend that you reread the vows you made on your wedding day.
Your wife is not a commodity. She's not a car that you buy and use until it gets "too old" and then throw out. For that matter, neither are you! She cannot say "Honey, you're getting too old. I want to get a newer model." People are not made to be used as a means to end, they are the end unto themselves. The proper reponse to a person is to love them.
Is it loving to "tire" of another person? It is loving to threaten abandonment? Although this has somewhat been lost as of late, it is a husband's place and honor to love and provide for and protect and honor his wife. Are you fulfilling your obligations as a husband? To do otherwise is to act childishly--only children grow tired of their "toys" or "playmates" and whine for another one.
Also, I would like to respectfully remind you that although you may or may not currently be a regular "stud muffin" in your own perspective, this will not always be the case. You, too, like all others will grow older. You will lose hair on your head and grow some in your ears. You will become wrinkled. If you have chosen to reject those that agreed to live with you and love you throughout your life, you will die alone.
I recently read a story about a man who died and was not discovered until his landlord attempted to raise his rent and had not heard from him. They suspect he had been dead for as many as four years, although no one knows for sure how long ago he had died since he apparantly had no one in his life who cared for him. Here is the link if you are interested in reading this story: http://www.foxnews.com/wires/2006Oct04/0,4670,AustriaLongDead,00.html#
Thank God that you have someone who is willing to share their lives with you! Not everyone is ever even given the chance of meeting such a person. I recommend you start acting like the man of the house, apologize to your wife for your past behavior and start living up to your call in life to love and honor her all the days of your lives.
Thanks for reading and God bless you both! You and your wife will remain in my prayers.
2006-10-18 08:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you took the vow till death do you part so when it says for richer for poor and in sickness an health age is something that is a part of your health. So what did you think she was going to be 21 forever, get over the physical your probably no Denzell yourself.
2006-10-18 08:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Redbone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is HILARIOUS!
I know it's all fake, but part of me wishes it were true...because you know she'll get more than half of your stuff (including that cabin) and then she'll happily share it with some other guy - one probably much younger than you anyway! LOL!!!
You get a decent grade for the creative writing and wanting to stir people up, though.
2006-10-18 07:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One must be a realistic. Look when she was in her twenties,smart and looking good, you didnt think like that. If you think of leaving her then it will prove that you are an oppotunist. Be sure that if you do like that then one day you will be done like the same by some one else. Be a man of good and solid character. There are things called moral values.
2006-10-18 08:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too late. You have to divorce 'em before they get that old. I believe 35 is the age limit. Sorry, now you are stuck with an old woman for a wife, and she is stuck with a jerk for a husband......lol
2006-10-18 08:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very wrong, when you said those vows you said "For better or for Worse". Maybe you should stick to the. Just think of all the things that your wife has put up with over the years....She might not also think you all that now but is sticking to her vows and promises!
2006-10-20 10:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the dumbest thing I heard. Why did you get married if you don't love her? Marriage is suppose to be forever. You 2 are suppose to grow old together. No wonder she cursed at you. You are lucky in terms of finding the "one that you love". not everyone is lucky in that dept.
2006-10-18 07:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
36 is too young to be considered old, 50 is the old 40 you know
2006-10-18 07:57:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋