i dont know what to do at this point. HELP!
2006-10-18 07:52:38 · 10 answers · asked by hevel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My Husband and I have a family so I would honor his memory by constantly having pictures around to remind me of him and the ultimate sacrifice he gave to defend the freedoms of our family.
I would make sure that I spoke of him daily to our children and that we would laugh about the funny things that Daddy would do and say. I would continue with the traditions that my Husband had established in our family and I would make sure to tell our children every day that Daddy loves us very much and that we will all be together again some day.
I wouldn't remarry. I already found the man of my dreams and I would honor our marriage that way.
My heart goes out to you...
2006-10-18 07:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in it FEELS like never or he is MIA, or was he killed in action?
If it just feels like never, then you wait. He's doing an honorable thing, do I agree with the war? (let's not get started on THAT one) He's joined the armed forces and is now serving his country.
You stay faithful to him and support HIM and love HIM and miss HIM. And when you see him again, spend a week together just the two of you to make up for lost time.
If he's MIA or he's been killed, then my condolences to you, I'm so sorry for your loss. You mourn him and let yourself have some time to heal. Take a year or as long as you feel you need, but don't hide in your shell and not let another love you. That would not be what he wanted for you I'm sure. Take the time to heal, then get back out there and face the world knowing you were loved by such an honerable man and be grateful for the time you spent together, thank the good lord for the blessing he gave you in your husband and hope that the good lord will see to it that you find another one equally as wonderful in time.
2006-10-18 14:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you, because I live with that same fear everyday... My husband is in Iraq and at time it seems like my life is so empty.. When I know that having him is the most fulfilling thing that has ever happened to me... But yet, I always have to keep in mind that being a Soldier is what he signed up for.. And putting there life on the line (everyday) is just one of the circumstances that goes alone with the job..... Yes, being a military wife deserves it's own rank, some time's I don't think people realize just how much we go through knowing that our better half's is in harms way....
Some time's I look around and see people having a good time.. Not having a good time.. Doing good things, doing bad things.. And I'm always reminded that I can't be with my husband because he's fighting to see that all the people are living a safe and carefree life...........
What do I do if my husband doesn't make it out the desert? I can't say....... But my faith and my heart and him knowing that we need him keeps me knowing that he's going to be fine....
When I do talk to my husband, I always let him know that I'm waiting for him, staying faithful, loving him more and more... I continue to be his encouragement.. Some time's I think he hears my silent cries, but I can't help it.... A heart does what it wants to do........
I pray the day never comes that I can't be with my husband, but it's Gods will and way so I will trust in him... And keep faith that my husband IS going to come home to me safe.........
I wish you luck please feel free to contact me if you want to talk.. I hope something that I said, Is helpful............
2006-10-18 16:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Don't focus on the negatives and stuff like that. You would deal with it if it happened, just like if your husband was here and got into a fatal car accident. Enjoy the time you have now.
if something did happen you would seek out counseling from your local hospice center or other, revel in his memory and allow time to lessen but never take away the pain. Make sure you are set up with wills and all that stuff beforehand and just pray everyday for his safe return.
2006-10-18 14:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by We2Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meaning what? Do you mean in a body bag? Do you mean mentally? You aren't being clear here at all. I spend 13 months in the bush in the Nam. Wasn't any fun. Killed people because let's face it...tossing down your rifle while wearing a marine's uniform and saying "Hey, hey...no offense...I don't want to fight" was not a wise option.
i adjusted.
2006-10-18 14:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it would be very hard to take as it was when he left for desert storm. but i would know he died doing what he loved to do. standing behind his country and all the beliefs that ran through his viens as well. i would be a very proud widow , what else could i do?
2006-10-18 15:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have the Red Cross investigate.
2006-10-18 15:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need to get more information about this.
2006-10-18 15:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info, honey. Is yours not coming back??
2006-10-18 14:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a new one
2006-10-18 14:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋