I have or should I say had a good friend whom happens to be a somewhat famous radio star. He has now managed to piss me off and I am wondering how do you get revenge with someone that is on the air? Trust me people know too much about me from his BIG mouth already. Nobody really knows who I am other than the name he uses for me and I don't think that anyone listening to him cares about my choices in life or morality or the # of children I have or etc. However the people who do know me have heard things I'd rather them not (p.s. I work in a ER, more people know who I am than I like to already) HELP me I need a good plan! No,no I don't want to cause him physical harm, just a little public shame......
2006-10-18 07:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by Stacey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all maybe you don't have the right person and who said anything about intimate woth anyone?!
2006-10-18 08:06:22 · update #1
with, with not woth
2006-10-18 08:07:31 · update #2
the wrong person to the person who messaged me!
2006-10-18 08:11:24 · update #3
He has the ability to broadcast to an audience of thousands. Every day. You don't. I'd let sleeping dogs lie. besides...just how intimate did you become with this friend? Why would he do this? There has to be a reason. Tell me. I want to know. people just don't do this for no cause.
2006-10-18 08:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already making himself look bad. I think you have two choices: either ignore him and totally cut him out of your life, or threaten to litigate. In either case, don't listen to his show again. He probably likes the idea that you're listening and as he's obviously a bully, believes you can't reply. No real man would do what he's done.
It doesn't matter that he hasn't mentioned you by name - he's given enough information for certain people to identify you or guess at your identity. If he thinks you won't be able to sue him successfully, he couldn't be more wrong. Get a lawyer, and some decent friends.
2006-10-18 15:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's already caused you grief by telling details about your life. What on earth do you think would stop him from telling everybody details about whatever petty scheme you concocted and just showing you up that much more? Not only that, but his sharing such a story could end up actually polarizing some of his listeners/fans against you, while right now you're just some silly girl he used to know.
Let it go. It's seriously safer that way.
2006-10-18 15:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He and his big mouth are already doing the work for you.
Anyone of sound mind knows that his rantings are of low self-esteem.
Your revenge could be pointing that out to him.
You being angry is his hurtful comments. You can always choose to ignore him.
2006-10-18 14:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't get revenge on someone who has the ability to publicly blast you across the radio airwaves...But don't worry, there is Karma, and he will be dealt with accordingly... What HE is doing says more about HIS character, than YOURS...
2006-10-18 15:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him, sometimes revenge just isn't worth the hassle
2006-10-18 14:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋