OK so you pick some guy up at a club or whatever. Forget what he wants to do or how he acts, if YOU could decide how things would go, would you make out and kiss and stuff or not? Would you hang out afterwards or leave right away? Would you spend lots of time on foreplay or just dive right on it? In short, what's your style when you hook up?
2006-10-18 07:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A bit personal don't you think, but you asked......
It depends on my mood and the scene. I can be vanilla or kink and as such different tacks are in play, however, I personally enjoy kissing and lots of foreplay then lots of sex. As for my style, it can be flirtatious to commanding (again given the scene at the time) but always fun.
To me sex is more than just the 'act' itself, flirting is sex, talking is sex, our very existence is sex, we've just learned to be more civil and subtle about it. (note: in the case of the US, a great many seem to be afraid of sex ie: the Christian Right, Republicans....well at least some Republicans, Ann Coulter, Bill O'reilly, anyone from Fox (Faux) News etc.)
2006-10-18 07:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna answer this as a bi chick, so i've adapted the paragraph a little.
I'd say yes, a little intimacy is nice, but I don't want to go overboard and spend hours kissing and doing foreplay and whispering sweet nothings in one-anothers ears... by that point i'm bored and want to go home and watch TV. Fifteen minutes to half an hour of kissing and undressing and touching and oral or whatever is nice, but to be honest, quicker is better! I still need the intimacy though - I don't like feeling used, and a few kisses and cuddels ensure that I dont!
2006-10-18 14:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Pebbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this all depends on how i am feeling, i mean usually if i decide to leave the club or bar with someone then we are going to be intimate. i might just dive right in or do a little foreplay, it all depends on how i feel that night
2006-10-18 14:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I was ready to settle down, I was all about the hookup. . ..if I could have walked in naked, I would have! The NSA stuff is quick, efficient, and mentally unchallenging.
2006-10-18 14:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depending on who I picked up or who picked me up.....a little intimacy is nice, not required though.
2006-10-18 15:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grab his crotch right off the bat so he knows I mean business.
2006-10-18 15:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Peri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bullshit or f*ckin' kissy cuddely crap! I'd just dive right in there!Sniff it, lick it & bang it. Then I'm gone!
2006-10-18 16:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ozzie B. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends whether how wasted I am. (laugh)
2006-10-18 16:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋