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Question

My husband and I have sex usually once a week and when we do he usually last about a minute maybe two for real and it makes me mad as hell I ask him why he dont last longer and he says that it feels to damn good. Is this a problem with him or is it something that i am doing? I almost want to go cheat because I am so frustrated. If anyone has advice please give it.

Answer 1

Help him first, maybe some foreplay until he finishes. Let him recover and do it again. The second time should last longer. Also, try making love more often. It promotes stamina and good health. Not to brag, but we have sex every night, sometimes twice. My health is good (you can burn 200-300 calories during sex), my stamina is outstanding and my girl is satisfied 19 times out of 20. Nobody's perfect! Good Luck!

Answer 2

Once a week is not enough. Your husband has a load of gun powder building up all week long. This is simple...have sex more often and he'll last longer. If he doesn't want the sex then give him a ******** or toss him off. The desired end state here is the reduction in the sensitivity of his pepe. The more you excercise his pepe the longer it will take him to get the train to the station.

If this doesn't help (I'm pretty sure it will), but just in case then you can get desenstitzing cream. This will numb the pepe and it will be harder for him to get to the point of no return. In the orient many asian women would rub the head of pepe with cocaine...cocaine has a numbing effect and does the same thing....now I'm not advocating you to use cocaine...one it's illegal and two it's too expensive. But you can get the same thing from lidocaine jell..it is not a controlled substance and is relatively cheap. Please be careful and not get it on your deloris (I hope you watch Seinfield) the numbing effect would work on you as well.

Good luck

Answer 3

Premature ejaculation is a psychological problem. The local library or book store is a good source of information to help both of you combat this problem. Increased foreplay or sensual touch are some things you can both incorporate into your sex life. There are many ways to make love to someone without intercourse. You both have to concentrate on the things that you fell in love with each other for at the beginning of your relationship pre-intercorse. I will say this; him saying, "it feels too good" is a cop out. He has to simply put more time into your satisfaction. He has to be creative. Communication is key. And as for the other co-conspirator in this situation; seeking someone else outside the marriage should not be an option, even if your kidding. After the flowers and rings have been exchanged and the cards and gifts; there is real work that has to be done to maintain a marriage and a union of love.

Answer 4

It's HIS fault.

Do you believe that I've been bitched at because I can last so long!? Blows my mind man, but anyway, he does NOT know his body well enough and has not trained himself to have some control.

He probbely love you a great deal, and yes....to we men it DOES feel darn good, but that's no excuse to do this. He also needs to realize there is much greater pleasure in lasting and giving pleasure to his partner...you....but he's lazy and has not botehred to try and gain soem self-control.

This is what he needs to do, and the way you can help is being patient. IF he's willing to do it. Don't cheat sweety, that's not the way to do it. Have him give you 'head' so you can get off, but you'll need ot work with him while he does this.

I hope he's willing and I hope it works out for you both. Good luck

Answer 5

Well...he is being truthful. I agree that sex feels good. However I think that a big part of this is that he's getting his rocks off and thinking only about himself. Kinda makes it almost like you'd swear it was a Golden Retriever instead of your husband huh?

I always was turned on by the fact that the longer I worked on her...the more foreplay involved..and when she said she couldn't wait any longer..I'd still make her wait until she orgasamed again at least twice...then it was my turn. Even then... It was just fun as an exercise in self control. He needs to quit thinking about getting off like a dog and concentrate more on his partner.

takes two to tango.

Answer 6

Im not a guy but i couldnt help myself. Sorry! I hope you read this anyway.
There are alot of things you can do to be satisfied. Try going to the stag shop and buy a ********. It will slow him down a bit. Or you can get one of those tiny vibrators that goes on your finger and you could ask him to play and lick before you have sex.
If he's your husband you obviously love him alot.... I mean you married him right. Dont go cheat that will just cause more problems. And you would never forgive yourself. Good Luck!

Answer 7

You have to understand that man operates sexually from the hard drive that we all have since birth. We mate to procreate. The faster you can ejaculate the more secure possibility of inseminating your spouse. It is that simple. Man is also the only mammal that has sex for purely hedonistic reasons. Since this mix represents the majority of men we have to consciously strife to understand what is pleasurable to our partner. Explain to him that the immense pleasure he feels can last much longer if he learns a couple of techniques to prolong his staying power. Also suggest that there are myriad ways to gain pleasure besides just vaginal penetration. Discover together the possibilities that lie in store if you try to spice things up a bit by delving into the world of fellatio, cunnilingus, anal sex, masturbation, pornography, toys and the likes. Break the mold and think out side the box!

Answer 8

Well you can't cheat (you're married), why don't you go get a vibe? You and he could even use it together.

Also, there are exercises he can do. There are tons of sites out there that have ideas - I wouldn't bother with "natural" remedies like various vitamins / herbs, they won't work. But just google for premature ejaculation and check out some of the sites.

Answer 9

Well, you should be having sex more often and he will last longer. Communicate more with him on your feelings. Also, make him work for it. What I mean is motivate him right. Ask him, "What ever happened to ladies first?" I think a man should satisfy his woman first. When it comes to sex men are like microwave ovens and women are like crock pots. They need to be warmed up with foreplay. I really think having sex everyother day would really help. Once a week is not enough. MAKE TIME FOR EACHOTHER! Great luck!

Answer 10

He needs to thing about something else other than what he is doing. You may be a bit dry which would cause more friction and cause him to get off quicker, use some lubricating lotion. Generally the second or third time you do it in one evening the longer it takes, do him again and again the same evening.