how do you know your gay?

Question

i have feels for girls but i have alwas loved guys but kown i'm having more feelings for girls

Answer 1

I was married for 14 years, together with my (now ex) wife for 17 years. My first M2M encounter felt more natural than my entire 17 years with my wife. I knew immediately that I had been living a lie. Once you've explored a bit, you'll know.

Answer 2

Learn about The "Kinsey Scale" it is defined like this:
0=exclusively heterosexual behavior and 6=exclusively homosexual behavior. 3's are equally hetero/homosexual. 1's have 'incidental' homosexual contacts and 5's have incidental heterosexual contacts. 2's are primarily heterosexual with some deliberate homosexual experiences and desire, and 4's are the reverse.

Kinsey found through thousands of interviews that men and women participated in a range of sexual behaviors, and that sexual identity for some could change over time. For example, some people had homosexual experiences early in their sexual lives, and some people only had sex with the opposite gender, but their fantasy life was mainly homosexual.

This scale has been debated often since Kinsey's original data collection in the 1940's. One criticism is that there are other dimensions besides behavior and sexual fantasies, the two components that Kinsey used to fashion his scale, that may determine an individual's sexual orientation. There's attraction, emotional preference, social preference, and lifestyle, to name a few ways that people identify themselves. Also, there's the past (I did then but don't now), the present, and the 'ideal' (I'd like to but...).

Answer 3

Human sexuality is not two separate boxes labeled men and women. It is a spectrum, like the color band. A few people are at the very ends of the spectrum because they are attracted only to their same sex, or, only to the opposite sex. The majority of us come some where in-between these two end points. We can be occasionally attracted to our same sex. Attracted frequently, Attracted a lot. Etc. You are simply experiencing your natural inclinations as you become more mature and less anxious about sexuality.

Answer 4

Okay, so you can love and have feelings, that's great, perfect. But who do you fantasize about? When you see {a guy, a girl, both} which of them makes you feel sexual? Since it's about attraction and sexuality the only one who can answer it is you, because love and feelings are something we're all capable of to anyone, but sexual feelings, that will tell you your answer.

Answer 5

well, first of all you have to open yourself to new experiences maybe you once you start going with girls you find out you really like guys, it maybe just a phase your going thorough, or maybe you will find out you really like girls if so! then you will be happier with yourself no matter what!
its really important to know who you are and what you need so you can pursuit your place in the world.

Answer 6

Your probably to young to be worring about it,, but maybe your just being a curious about things,, and maybe your Bi- , I have had Bi-encounters in the past, no regrets here,

Answer 7

I've never been sexually attracted to a guy. I've always wanted to be with women. I can't see myself with a guy, because that would be a lie.

Answer 8

Why not just screw who you want and forget about labelling everything?

Answer 9

well join the club and have a ball

Answer 10

go with your heart