2006-10-18 07:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by schansack87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My fiance loves foreplay and believe me, I'm one happy lady. I'd be mad if all he did was dive right in everytime, which I think is selfish. . what's important and what makes you a good lover is making sure your partner is happy. . so if it's foreplay she wants, it's foreplay she gets. . and vice versa. And I agree with one of the other people that responded, the more intense the foreplay the more passionate the sex it seems.
2006-10-18 07:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the idea that women prefer the journey, but men see it as a race. It is the same on the microscopic world. The woman gets her egg out and starts all the 'come hither' stuff with manner, muses, and pheromes and the man has a couple million sperm all yelling "let me at it!"
My wife asked me once about how I could be so calm, deliberate, and almost casual, while at other times I seemed almost desperate. I mentioned how sometimes intimate moments were common and fairly close in time, while at other times it had frankly been a long while--"starving men sometimes have bad table manners."
Foreplay can be a tremendous pleasure in and of itself. My first wife told me a few times that I played her "like a violin". Life sometimes gets complicated and sometimes women don't like to be "played", so men are more interested in the meal than the decorations, the main event rather than the pregame show. Sorry. Sometimes guys are simply sloppy lovers. Sometimes they are starving and forgotten their manners when opportunities do arise.
2006-10-18 07:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's point of view if your man is a good or better lover he would be getting aroused by giving you foreplay to get you up to his speed. As far as you giving him foreplay I've never met a guy who didn't like it and would turn it down, just be imaginative.
2006-10-18 07:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay if great! The longer and more intense foreplay is, the longer the love session is. Men just want to put their ***** in one of out three holes, they don't care which one, as long as it's warm and cozy!
2006-10-18 07:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf loves alot of foreplay-and i do too-but he dosen't "need" to have sex like i do to really enjoy it-kinda like appetizers and salad before a steak dinner-i want/love it all-but am there for the steak the most and thats what i want.
Sometimes want no foreplay-just sex-other times-can go all nite, i think guys don't care-long as we're naked.
2006-10-18 07:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends if the woman(or man if you go that way) is any good at 4-play.
Of course I consider sex the whole flirtatious seductive romantic package and not just the up/down mambo.
2006-10-18 07:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the moment calls for. A combination of 4 play and sex = great orgasm.
2006-10-18 07:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by kahloguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any sex that starts with foreplay is great. But men are always tring to stick thier tool in a woman as soon as possible.
2006-10-18 07:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's really about me giving her foreplay, I mean us guys we're going to get ours. I just want to make sure @ the end she is pleased & happy
2006-10-18 07:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is more important for women most of the time.
2006-10-18 07:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋