me an my husband ahve sex as soon as were done we'll shower an the he goes an watches tv or gets on the computer or plays the ps2 sometimes it feels like he just comes to bed for sex then wants to get up an do his own thing. maybe its nothing maybe its just me. i dont think he should b all over me after but to just get up an go on like nuttin happen . maybe im over reacting .
2006-10-18 06:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the next time you are intimate, tell him what you want afterwards. maybe you just want to be held. maybe you would like to rest then do it again! maybe you want to try something new in the shower. just let him know that you want to be near him and there will be time for tv or games later.
2006-10-18 06:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by barn cat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Naw......this is the female thing. although sex feels great for you and you can orgasam something like 8 times in a millisecond...you lucky girl you....you crave the affection and the cuddling and caressing that comes afterwards. See...guys on the other hand say "Baby...that was great sex but I've expended all this energy and need to replensih it. Would you mind making me a ham sandwich with cheese, lettuce, tomato, mayo and some of those great pickles that your mom made last week? Oh...and do you mind bring me a beer too?".
I used to know a guy that complianed because if his girlfriend...ahem...brought him to orgasam manually then he was forced to hold her for the next three hours.
We'll hold you, cuddle you and such. After about.....ohhh..three...maybe four minutes though we've had enough.
Me? I always had a hard time staying awake. My wife in the meantime now wants to get up and start rearranging the furniutre, waxing the kitchen floor and drive to the store to do a week's worth of grocery shopping. How about you? Are you wide awake and full of energy after sex? If so...what's the secret to that? care to impart it to us males?
2006-10-18 07:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not every single time should be a theatrical outpouring of deep, romantic love. It's exhausting. He should cuddle with you for a few minutes at least, and onece in a while she should spend some time and tell you how good you feel, that he loves you and how important you are. But I think it's a little unrealistic to expect it every time.
But too abrupt.....yeah....he shouldn't be *too* abrupt when you are done.
Does that help at all?
2006-10-18 07:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try having more sex at night and then he'll have to stay and cuddle you.
Morning sex is a nice was to start the day, but it doesn't change it.
2006-10-18 08:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe making love or showering energized him so he doesn't feel like staying in bed. If you want him to stay with you for a while, mention it to him.
2006-10-18 07:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by LadyDeathStryke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this - ask him to stay there in bed with you. If he wont or complains about it, hes just there for the sex. Does he please you orally? Thats always a good sign of if a man is there for you or just to get off.
2006-10-18 07:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With most changes to computer systems one needs to log off then back on. It seems rather odd, but thats how these things work.
2016-05-21 23:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as women need aftercare. introduce your husband to this. I want to lay in his arms, rub his chest, and feel him breathe, for men it's all about ejaculation, and once that is over, they forget about it until the next time.
2006-10-18 07:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. Quit over anylizing it all and enjoy the ride.
2006-10-18 06:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself lucky...when i'm with my wife or girlfriend i'm usually watching tv or playing xbox while we do it
2006-10-18 07:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋