i wanted to know if anyone thought it was really bad to kiss your teacher who is 20 years older than you and is married with kids lol plz write back xxxxx
2006-10-18 06:35:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im in my 2nd year of college
2006-10-18 06:43:14 · update #1
Go ahead. Screw up your future. Be in therapy for the rest of your life.
Have you looked at it this way?
2006-10-18 06:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHERE IS YOUR MORALS. Of course it is BAD. You not only can ruin his relationship with his wife and kids but you take your self down a path that can ruin YOU.
Teachers are not only off limits but he is way to OLD for you. Do you really think he will dump his family for you. What do you have that he wants? Age span is not good. My mother married at man 25 yrs older than her and it ended in divorce and distroyed her life. She never remarried and her life was a living hell.
Many young women long for the older man to take care of her. But when he gets gray, wrinkled, and need Ginko for his memory are you going to be happy with him. If he has a heart problem or is bed ridden in his 60's are you going to wait on him hand and foot. Take care of him until he dies.
I don't care how desirable he looks to you right now and how much you think you love him you are possibly looking for a father figure. Dont distroy his life. He will lose his job and probably go to prison.
Stop Now. Find someone your own age to Love and who you can have a normal relationship with. There is a perfect match out there for you, your soul mate, so start looking in the right direction.
2006-10-18 06:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your instructor crossed a line that replaced into ambitious - vibrant - with flashing lights fixtures & sirens. you're saying u r 19 & this began a splash over a 12 months in the past - you have been and are of consenting age. i could tread gently - dont make any long term commitments carry off on toddlers. regardless of if it is actual love - it's going to shop till you end college. additionally if he believes he isnt doing something incorrect, why cant he face your loved ones? how are you able to stand it - hiding out - you won't be able to pass out with him everywhere. what does he do basically take a seat at domicile lacking you? or does he have an energetic social existence? What do you do for exciting on weekends? one ques - you're saying you like professor, yet you're attracted to a distinctive? it is quite useful to talk to a counselor - you look searching for the father that wasnt there while you have been youthful. you % 2 handle that & triumph over it - locate out who you incredibly are. you're extra desirable than: a) the academics squeeze b) a youthful female who digs geezers c) that newborn from a broken domicile you may desire to, pass 2 skool, detect a profession - pass to counseling... you could desire to heal out of your formative years wounds first. be sure which you are the final individual you will possibly be, so which you would be able to attraction to somebody who could like and cherish you like the gem which you're. Dont settle for some clandestine relationship the place you're positioned on a shelf till he demands you. You deserve extra effective, female! If i'm incorrect on my assesment, i exhibit regret. no could desire to describe to me - basically be sure you do no longer fall into everybody's trick bag. God be with you
2016-10-19 22:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you stupid?? you could ruin his life (it's aganst the LAW for teachers to have relationships with pupils), his families life and upset yourself because you'll never have this unattainable guy. i also think anyone having an affair is despicable anyway, but even worse are the people that break up relationships. it's not funny because yes it is that bad, and then some.
2006-10-18 06:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by jimi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad. Your teacher is an authority figure and is MARRIED. You have no right to step into and onto someone's marriage vows.
2006-10-18 06:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anna F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that teacher likes you back its not bad but taking it to SEX is something even better. Drive him crazy until he wants more. I know it happened to me he left his wife and his kids. Beleive me it will happen to you. Oh yeah play with other guys in you class.
2006-10-18 07:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse it is bad. moreover you are cheating his wife and kids. if u were in her situation will u tolerate when u came to know that your husband has another relationship? so go girl stop it. be good , concentrate in ur studies. if not your life will be a failure for sure..
2006-10-18 06:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a cold hearted slut and he's a male chauvinist pig... have a great future together, just remember you just f*cked up some innocent childs life... good job
2006-10-18 06:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very BAD idea - especially for the teacher, who can lose his job and go to JAIL!
2006-10-18 06:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by kentata 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-18 06:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋