my husband and i are thinking about going through sperm donors or sperm banks and we are trying to find the cheapest one and how we can go about it can some help or does anyone have any ideas thanks
2006-10-18 06:32:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
as a product of an anonymous donor, i beg of you to not create a child who won't know their father or their siblings. it is hell to live a life of mystery, wondering if every man you pass on the street is "him" or if every person u date might be a sibling, and having to embarrassingly ask them what their fathers did when they were younger. the eldest of us that i know is in their 60s, and we are still being created. i know that the majority of us would rather have been created in ways other than this. it's not to say that we despise our parents, as we love them very much. but their inconsiderate decisions have created a good deal of pain for us, and it is their responsibilities too. most of us will never know who "he" is, or our siblings, despite all the efforts we make to find out. please, i ask you, look further into the situation of the offspring. and please message me back with whatever questions you may have, or if you want to know my story or the stories of others of us. there is so much i don't think is considered before creating a child who will never know half of themselves. remember, if you have that much love to give to a child...there are alternatives
2006-10-19 19:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by luckyturtle788 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Talk with a fertility specialist. You'll need one anyway, since that whole process hinges on IU or AI.
2006-10-18 06:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋