addict, has a beatiful cute face and those silverdollar expectant eyes,he was one of those who were sharing his stories to inpsire newscomers. he was sitting right in fron of me and his hair was all curly,he was definitely not exactly my type but i fell for him and his behavior at once. the thing is ( and there's always a thing) is that i am coming from a failed relationship with my ex russian bf sergey. after the meeting, I, who am very independent and like to stand on my own feet, went to him and started talking. As soon as he opened his mouth, I could see he had an eastern european accent, I started trembling, I didn't want to know whether he was russian or not, although my other side already felt very excited by theidea:a new russian bf!he smiled at me and those eyes, so cute and longing for love...when i asked him where he was from he was he was from Bielorussia (!!!!!!) and right after a girl called him, it was his gf (!!!) why do i always fall in love with starigh russian guys?
2006-10-18 05:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hehe...that's called 13 stepping and it's a no-no...unless you're looking to relapse....
2006-10-18 06:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really like her so: Take her out to eat, although a bit cliche? Ice-skating (great hand-holding excuse than can lead to more ;-) )? Any theme parks near you? And kissing on a second date is fine, but start off with a few hugs, a kiss on the cheek etc. Maybe try kissing her good night? If she freezes up when you lean in for the kiss tell her you don't know what came over you and you're sorry if it's too fast. Good luck.
2016-05-21 23:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to the concept of no personal ( ie sexual) relationships for at least a year in AA/NA? Or maybe you are (haha) an old timer? A good sponsor would advise you to work on your RECOVERY, not on hopping into bed with another "Serge". Without clean time, it would just turn into a disaster, anyhow.
2006-10-18 06:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta tell you picking up a guy to date at an NA meeting might not be the best thing for you.
2006-10-18 06:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince yourself that he was in the Russian maffia and that if you hit on him he would say, "I must break you" like the guy did in that Rocky movie. In no time at all you'll get over him.
2006-10-18 06:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Harry Manback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't be helped... lots of Russian guys are just really HOT!
2006-10-18 06:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about the guy!! concentrate on why you are there. this in not a place to meet your next partner. You are there to help stay clean.Its hard I know good luck.
2006-10-18 06:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do they tell you in N.A. about repeating old habits of dependancy? That's the problem.
2006-10-18 06:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea, dont even
2006-10-18 06:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Nehyers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its that exotic look they have
2006-10-18 06:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by accvining 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋