2006-10-18 05:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think he's overreacting
2006-10-18 05:54:29 · update #1
Amy,
That depends on his "perception" of the baby and his feelings towards you. I do not know what his perception is of the baby so, I cannot answer to that. Either he recognizes it as a precious baby or he thinks it is a piece of flesh that is your problem.
If he does recognize the baby is precious then he will be concerned about what happens to it. This will not improve the relationship with you. Let's face the facts:
1. You have a vast racial difference that makes a lasting relationship improbable;
2. There are differences between gender that conflict;
3. There are differences in personalities that conflict or harmonize, which it sounds like there is some of that here;
4. There may be religious issues as well;
In short, making a meaningful lasting relationship a success is difficult. You two probably are likable and saw something in eachother that got you two together. In the beginning, things must have been nice enough to have sex. What I am trying to say is he is not all that bad. It is a miracle if your relationship were to succeed.
So, don't trade insults just because things didn't go the way you hoped for. Life is too short for bitterness and inflicting pain or punishment on someone who is just as hurt as you things didn't go as hoped for. Live and learn. God bless you on your future Amy.
2006-10-18 07:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Search4truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part an abortion is the ultimate insult to the father of the Universe......GOD!
But I know that was not your question....so I'll answer the question: It depends on whether or not the guy was really excited about having a child.
Then again, how insulting will it be to the child who is actually being aborted......just a question.
Best of Luck!
2006-10-18 12:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it the worst insult to the father of the baby - but I would call it an act of murder against somebody that can't defend themselves. And I'm sure that some guys, on hearing that their partner had an abortion, would be pretty (rightfully) hurt and heartbroken. If you're considering an abortion, please think carefully. And good luck.
2006-10-18 12:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say yes because it is part of him to. It takes two and if you are considering this (which I think it is totally wrong to have an abortion) you need to discuss it with him. Out of respect you need to talk to him first and work it out with him.
2006-10-18 13:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is especially a father who wants to be there for his baby and is going to do right it's a very big insult.
2006-10-18 12:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an ultimate insult PERIOD.
it's not your choice to kill the baby.
you were meant to get pregnant and have it.
god made that decision for you.
and if you kill the baby, it's just like killing anybody else.
2006-10-18 12:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because the baby is a part of him too.
2006-10-18 12:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! its also an ultimate insult to God! thats his kid too, not just yours!
2006-10-18 12:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it should be a choice both parents should make together..
i dont think it should just be up to the mother
2006-10-18 12:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE AN ABORTION.
THAT IS KILLING A PERSON
2006-10-18 13:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋