My fiancee' made the comment about watching these two ladys' at her work have sex and said that she wanted too, and I feel horrible, like if she does I believe it would be cheating, What do you think? and please explain. (We are lesbian)
2006-10-18 05:45:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not into that stuff, I think if you're going to be commited to someone than your supposed to be commited and sexually involved and all that great stuff with that person and that person only. I also am not comfortable with her watching getting turned on by other women and coming home and using me as her sexual release... I think it's weird and uh sick lol
2006-10-18 05:56:56 · update #1
if it makes you uncomfortable than she needs to understand that,,,im staright but i had to let my man know that wathching pornos made me uncomfortable and feel worthless, so he stopped and we are ok,,,if a man can let that go than he must really love me, as with your girl, she should be able to understand your feelings on that subject,,,if not, than say,,,,so long sister!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 05:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she watched with your permission it would be one thing but to watch without your permission that would be wrong. If you trust her enough to sit and not get involved then let her. Maybe she'll come home so hot and bothered you'll be so happy you let her watch. She would also have to be understanding if the shoe were on the other foot. Tell her she can watch them but you get to watch another set of friends that invited you. See how she'll react. I don't understand why she doesn't want to involve you though.
2006-10-18 05:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watching and being watched can be very exciting - give it a try.
2006-10-18 06:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should really explain to her how you feel and if she doesn't respect that then maybe she's not right for you neway
2006-10-18 05:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋